The Intermediate Sex: A Study of Some Transitional Types of Men and WomenCarpenter, Edward
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The Intermediate Sex: A Study of Some Transitional Types of Men and Women
Carpenter, Edward
Homosexuality; Sex
“In my own school-life--as a day scholar--I had two such friendships,
though of course in a day school there was not the same possibility of
their development. One was with an elder boy some five years my senior,
and the other with a master some twelve years older than myself. I was
a shy, timid youngster, and not having a robust physique did not enter
much into the ordinary athletics of the school. My elder friend was a
very delicate, gentle, refined boy with a purity and loftiness of mind in
striking contrast to the filthy moral atmosphere of the school at that
time, but he was never censorious or self-righteous. I feel that this
friendship was the most powerful influence in my early life in keeping a
high ideal of conduct before me--much more powerful than the influence of
home, which I do not think I was at all conscious of.
“After he left school, for Cambridge, we used to write regularly to one
another--long letters, hardly ever less than three sheets in length. I
remember I used to think him the most handsome man I knew, but looking
now at his photo, taken about that time and comparing it with others, I
see that his features were inferior to many others of my school-fellows.
At the end of his second year he died of consumption. It was during the
Long Vacation, and I was abroad at the time. I remember I used to sit
up late into the night writing very long letters to him about all I had
seen, to interest him during his illness. I did not know how ill he
really was, but I had a terrible fear that I should not see him again.
When I got back and found he had just died the shock was awful. For weeks
I felt as if I had not a friend in the whole world. I have never felt any
loss so keenly either before or since.…
“The other friendship with my mathematical master, though not so
intimate, was still of a very affectionate character. I feel I owe a
great deal to it--he laid the foundation of my ideal of a teacher’s duty
to his pupils.”--_Private letter._
“It is not new in itself; this, the feeling that drew Jesus to John, or
Shakespeare to the youth of the sonnets, or that inspired the friendships
of Greece, has been with us before, and in the new citizenship we shall
need it again. The Whitmanic love of comrades is its modern expression;
Democracy--as socially, not politically conceived--its basis. The thought
as to how much of the solidarity of labour and the modern Trade-Union
movement may be due to an unconscious faith in this principle of
comradeship, is no idle one. The freer, more direct, and more genuine
relationship between men, which is implied by it, must be the ultimate
basis of the reconstructed Workshop.”--C. R. ASHBEE, “Workshop
Reconstruction and Citizenship,” p. 160.
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