The Intermediate Sex: A Study of Some Transitional Types of Men and WomenCarpenter, Edward
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The Intermediate Sex: A Study of Some Transitional Types of Men and Women
Carpenter, Edward
Homosexuality; Sex
H. ELLIS, in Appendix D. of his book on “Sexual Inversion,” speaks at
some length on the School-friendships of girls: what they call “Flames”
and “Raves”; of love at first sight; romance; courtship; meetings despite
all obstacles; long letters; jealousy; the writing the beloved’s name
everywhere, etc. These alliances are sometimes sexual, but oftener not
so--though full of “psychic erethism.”
In the same Appendix he quotes a woman of thirty-three, who writes, “At
fourteen I had my first case of love, but it was with a girl. It was
insane, intense love, but had the same quality and sensations as my first
love with a man at eighteen. In neither case was the object idealized:
I was perfectly aware of their faults; nevertheless, my whole being was
lost, immersed, in their existence. The first lasted two years, the
second seven years. No love has since been so intense, but now these two
persons, though living, are no more to me than the veriest stranger.”
Another woman of thirty-five writes, “Girls between the ages of fourteen
and eighteen at college or girls’ schools often fall in love with the
same sex. This is not friendship. The loved one is older, more advanced,
more charming or beautiful. When I was a freshman in college I knew
at least thirty girls who were in love with a senior. Some sought her
because it was the fashion, but I knew that my own homage and that of
many others was sincere and passionate. I loved her because she was
brilliant and utterly indifferent to the love shown her. She was not
pretty, though at the time we thought her beautiful. One of her adorers,
on being slighted, was ill for two weeks. On her return she was speaking
to me when the object of our admiration came into the room. The shock was
too great, and she fainted. When I reached the senior year I was the
recipient of languishing glances, original verses, roses, and passionate
letters written at midnight and three in the morning.”
“Passionate friendships among girls, from the most innocent to the most
elaborate excursions in the direction of Lesbos, are extremely common
in theatres, both among actresses, and even more among chorus and
ballet-girls.”--HAVELOCK ELLIS, “Sexual Inversion,” p. 130.
“The love of homosexual women is often very passionate, as is that of
Urnings. Just like these, the former often feel themselves blessed when
they love happily. Nevertheless, to many of them, as to the Urning, is
the circumstance very painful that in consequence of their antipathy to
the touch of the male they are not in the position to found a family.
Sometimes, when the love of a homosexual woman is not responded to,
serious disturbances of the nerve-system may ensue, leading even to
paroxysms of fury.”--A. MOLL, _op. cit._, p. 338.
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