The International Monthly, Volume 3, No. 3, June, 1851Various
History
The International Monthly, Volume 3, No. 3, June, 1851
Various
Art, Modern -- 19th century -- Periodicals; Literature, Modern -- 19th century -- Periodicals; Science -- History -- Periodicals
usages from ourselves of very uncivilized and uncomfortable behavior.
We then, decidedly, are the people who ought justly to be deemed the
most polite.
For instance--you arrive at Paris: how striking the difference between
the reception you receive at your hotel, and that you would find in
London! In London, arrive in your carriage! (_that_ I grant is
necessary)--the landlord meets you at the door, surrounded by his
anxious attendants; he bows profoundly when you alight--calls loudly
for every thing you want, and seems shocked at the idea of your
waiting an instant for the merest trifle you can possibly _imagine_
that you desire. Now try your Paris hotel--you enter the
courtyard--the proprietor, if he happen to be there, receives you with
careless indifference, and either accompanies you saunteringly
himself, or orders some one to accompany you to the apartments which,
on first seeing you, he determined you should have. It is useless to
expect another. If you find any fault with this apartment, if you
express any wish that it had this little thing, that it had not that,
do not for one moment imagine that your host is likely to say, with an
eager air, that he "will see what can be done"--that he "would do a
great deal to please so respectable a gentleman." In short, do not
suppose him for one moment likely to pour forth any of those little
civilities with which the lips of your English innkeeper would
overflow. On the contrary, be prepared for his lifting up his eyes,
and shrugging up his shoulders, (the shrug is not the courtier-like
shrug of antique days,) and telling you that the apartment is as you
see it, that it is for Monsieur to make up his mind whether he take it
or not. The whole is the affair of the guest, and remains a matter of
perfect indifference to the host. Your landlady, it is true, is not
quite so haughty on these occasions. But you are indebted for her
smile rather to the coquetry of the beauty, than to the civility of
the hostess. She will tell you, adjusting her head-dress in the mirror
standing upon the chimney-piece in the little "salon" she
recommends--"que Monsieur s'y trouvera fort bien, qu'un milord
Anglais, qu'un prince Russe, ou qu'un colonel du ----ième de dragons,
a occupé cette même chambre"--and that there is just by an excellent
restaurateur and a "cabinet de lecture"--and then--her head-dress
being quite in order--the lady expanding her arms with a gentle smile,
says, "Mais après tout, c'est à Monsieur à se décider." It is this
which makes your French gentleman so loud in praise of English
politeness. One was expatiating to me the other day on the admirable
manners of the English.
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