The International Monthly, Volume 4, No. 1, August, 1851Various
History
The International Monthly, Volume 4, No. 1, August, 1851
Various
Art, Modern -- 19th century -- Periodicals; Literature, Modern -- 19th century -- Periodicals; Science -- History -- Periodicals
One single Dutch custom still maintains its ground triumphantly, in
spite of the hurry of business, the selfishness of the commercial
spirit, and the efforts of a few paltry fashionists, who would fain
put down every thing in which a suspicion of heartiness can be
detected. It is the custom of making New Year visits on the first day
of January, when every lady is at home, and every gentleman goes the
rounds of his entire acquaintance; flying in and flying out, it is
true, but still with an expression of good-will and friendly feeling
that is invaluable in a community where daily life is so much under
the control of that cabalistic word--business. Ladies are in high
party-trim, and refreshments of various kinds are offered; but the
main point and recognized meaning of the whole is the interchange of
friendly greetings.
No one, not to the manor born, can estimate the glow of feeling that
characterizes these flying visits. "As iron sharpeneth iron, so doth
the countenance of a man his friend." The mere looking into each
other's faces is good for human creatures; and when the sincere even
though transient light of kindly feeling beams from the eyes that thus
encounter, something is done against egotism, haughty disregard and
blank oblivion. Many a coolness dies on New Year's Day, under a
battery of smiles; many a hard thought is shamed away by the good
wishes of the season. Old friends, who are inevitably separated most
of the time, thus meet at least once a year, for the enthusiasm of the
hour is potent enough to make the valetudinarian forsake his easy
chair, and the cripple his crutches. Visiting hours are extended so as
to include all the hours from ten in the morning until ten at night,
and, in order to make the most of these, the gentlemen take carriages
and scour the streets at the true American pace, so as to lose as
little time as possible on the way. If a storm occur, it is considered
quite a public misfortune, since it lessens, though it never
altogether prevents the fulfilment of the annual ceremony. It is true
that both ladies and gentlemen are death-weary when bed-time comes,
but that for once a year is no great evil. It is true that some young
men will take more whisky-punch, or champagne, than is becoming; but
for one who does this, there are many who decline "all that can
intoxicate," except smiles and kind words. In some houses the blinds
are closed, the gas lighted, and a band of music in attendance; and
each batch of visitors inveigled into polkas, or kedowas, for which
the lady of the house has taken care to provide partners. But this is
considered a degeneracy, and voted _mauvais ton_ by those who
understand the thing. To "throw a perfume o'er the violet," bespeaks
the French _coiffeur_ or the _parvenu_; the simplicity of the ancient
Dutch custom of New Year visits is its dignity and glory. Long may it
live unspotted by vulgar fashion! Well were it for the island city if
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