The Journal to Eliza and Various letters by Laurence Sterne and Elizabeth DraperSterne, Laurence
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The Journal to Eliza and Various letters by Laurence Sterne and Elizabeth Draper
Sterne, Laurence
Draper, Elizabeth, 1744-1778; Novelists, English -- 18th century -- Correspondence; Sterne, Laurence, 1713-1768 -- Correspondence
may years hence be cited as Examples of Conjugal Felicity, when those
whose Union commenced in Transport, have long, exhausted, all their
stock of Tenderness—for you my dear, have Wit, Spirit, sense enough; and
a Devotion to Elegant Cleanliness—I, prudence, tenderness, and easy
Temper to please—and a real Inclination to love you better, than I now
do, every Day of my Life—perfect this wish my Lydia—it is in your Power
to do it—as I doubt your Capacity in Nothing which is congenial to your
Will.”——Was not this a sensible Harangue my dear James? I swear to you,
that to see a Plan of this sort seems a thousand times better calculated
to promote Harmony in Life, than all the Reserves, Distances, and
Authorities, which men of noted Pride or Wisdom can have recourse to;
for there is that, in the Mind of a Principled Woman, which makes her
fond of unlimited confidences, it speaks to her affections, and I verily
believe there never yet, was that good Character, who abused them; Men
of sense, should never insinuate to a Wife, that they have not a very
high opinion of her Generosity—as it is the first step, to a good Minds
being careless and a degenerate One’s throwing off the Mask—for many a
Woman has been complimented into good Behaviour, upon trying occasions
when Temptations foible—and many a one, lost to a sense of greatness,
from depriving her of the Rewards due to Worth, and by that means
destroying the Principle of Self Complacency, which in Some Minds, must
be encouraged to be durable—for such is our Machinery, my dear James,
that we are all actuated by Praise, more or less, consequently more
Mechanical in our Thoughts & Actions than Pride or Knowledge, will
sometimes admit of from not being conscious perhaps of the necessity of
that stimulus in their own Case, which is absolutely requisite to some
natures, to impel them to any thing of the Noble, and good Kind.—After
telling you that M^r. & M^{rs}. Fenton, experienced the good effects of
coming to an Éclaircissement, and having a real dependance on the
Generosity & good sense of each other, it may be unnecessary to add
perhaps, that they became the esteem, & admiration of their
neighbourhood; still I tell you of it, because it’s pleasant to dwell on
such subjects, & not to leave a doubt on the mind of those who
contemplate them with satisfaction, as every judge of real merit must,
from their own fund of Natural Benevolence—M^r. Fenton, from a Man
distinguished for his Indifference and Taciturnity—became as remarkable
for his Even Chearfulness, and social Humour—Lydia lost nothing of her
Sprightly Talents, by making many of his Maxims, her own—and added to
the reputation of being a most agreable Woman, that of being as
respectable, as lively. A numerous offspring, together with the Habit of
acting in Concert upon all occasions, has so rivited their affections, &
Principles, that a description of their manners has rather the air of a
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