The Journal to Eliza and Various letters by Laurence Sterne and Elizabeth DraperSterne, Laurence
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The Journal to Eliza and Various letters by Laurence Sterne and Elizabeth Draper
Sterne, Laurence
Draper, Elizabeth, 1744-1778; Novelists, English -- 18th century -- Correspondence; Sterne, Laurence, 1713-1768 -- Correspondence
Communicativeness, which is the Cement of Affection between a Child and
it’s Monitress—I have another objection to M^{rs}. Whitehills
Patronage—which may seem at first, to have an ungenerous
sound—but I mean nothing illiteral by it—and that is, her narrow
Circumstances——Betsey has a chance for living Elegantly, and I am afraid
from the natural bent of her mind that if she is suddenly translated
from one extreme of Life to another, she may be apt to forget her
obligations to M^{rs}. Whitehall, and regulate her opinion of her, by
her situation—this is but too natural, to Girls of lively Propensities,
especially if they are taught to look forward to the luxuries, as to a
real Good—and all Preceptors, & Preceptress’s teach this, more or less,
for what else can be implied, by their servile Attention to Parents and
Persons of Wealth—however Denominated, as to Character. A conduct of the
above sort, in Betsey, to M^{rs}. Whitehill, would indeed distress me
exceedingly; & well I know, it would to the Soul, mortify that sensible
Woman—for she has all those finer Sensibilities, w’ch Affliction &
Pecuniary Embarrassments, rather gives a sharper edge to, than blunts by
the trial of perverse Accidents—and for this reason—Independent of my
Wishes on her own Account, I do most seriously wish, that her situation
in Life had been perfectly easy—Children, in general—have amazing Powers
as to observation & memory—Betsey, I am confident, possesses these—&
they may enable her to retain as to matters in which I had rather she
was perfectly ignorant. Had M^{rs}. Whitehill been a Mother—had her
fortune been affluent, and her tenderness of Heart a little more
Conspicuous—I know not the Woman who could have been more capable of
forming the Minds of Young People, for she has great Good Sense,
Generosity of Temper, a Mind Naturally Chearful, & prone to make every
thing it’s own with the assistance of very little Application, then she
reads, writes, speakes, not only correctly but gracefully, these are all
Important Advantages. I can & do feel the weight of them, & shall for
ever think my self obliged for Her—unsolicited offer to take Charge of
the Children—I should have loved her better perhaps, if I had thought it
proceeded from a Principle of Affection to myself rather than
Generosity—but this is foolish to say—or think—as We certainly can rely
more securely on those Qualities which are implanted in the breast by
nature herself & confirmed by Choice & Habit, than on those partial
Affections, which Caprice, Absence, Time, or Chance Eradicate.’Tis
certain that I in my Life, could never be induced to Unbend my whole
soul in the Presence of M^{rs}. Whitehill—there was a consent of Minds,
a something wanting, which enables the playful sincere Heart, to
disclose it’s follies, it’s Wishes, with the genuine warmth of kind
Simplicity, and without the suspicion of being any way a sufferer, by
the frank disclosure. Betsey’s Temper, partakes much of the nature of my
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