Africa, West -- Description and travel; Missions -- Africa
But Bojedi is still in the schoolhouse making a passionate but sorry
defense. He really loved the woman with a fatuous regard, and I believe
she was in love with him. He had first asked her uncle if he could marry
her, and the uncle, the head of her family, although he was supposed to
have absolute authority over her, replied that he had nothing to say in
the matter, for Antyandi would do as she pleased anyway. Others of her
relations had said that no Mpongwe woman would ever be allowed to marry
a Kombi (to which tribe Bojedi belonged) and that the whole Mpongwe tribe
would rise to prevent it. An open marriage was therefore impossible. And,
on the other hand, mere publicity is the only marriage ceremony there is
among Christians of Gaboon, and to forego publicity was to dispense with
all ceremony. But how could a public announcement be called a ceremony?
And how could mere publicity constitute a marriage bond?
This latter is in need of some explanation. Everybody knows that in
France only those marriages are legal which are made by the state. The
Roman Catholic Church insists upon a church marriage also, but it must
follow that of the state, and cannot precede it, the one being a legal
and the other a religious ceremony. In the colonies this same law is
enforced, and the church is not allowed to perform a marriage ceremony
until after the legal ceremony of the state. It happens also that there
are serious impediments to the legal ceremony and sometimes deplorable
consequences. The contracting parties must know their ages—which the
African never knows; must know where they were born—which they have never
thought of asking and everybody has forgotten; must know their parents,
both father and mother. The African knows his mother; but as for his
father, he may never have asked his mother that personal question. They
could easily have recourse to lies and invent a father, but unfortunately
they are required to produce the parents that their verbal consent to the
marriage may be obtained. If the parents are not in the country a written
consent is required; and if they are dead the proofs of their death must
be produced in the form of a burial certificate.
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