Africa, West -- Description and travel; Missions -- Africa
In lieu of a ceremony a useful custom has been introduced into the
church, namely, that shortly after marriage the man and woman shall
rise in their places in the weekly prayer-meeting, voluntarily, and
without the minister saying a word shall announce their marriage, the
man saying that he has taken this woman to be his wife and promising to
be faithful to her; likewise the woman. Well do I remember one night in
the Mpongwe Church when Barro and Anuroguli came to the prayer-meeting
which I was conducting, expecting to announce their recent marriage.
Barro rose at the end of the service and without the least embarrassment
announced his marriage and made his vows in most appropriate words. But
Anuroguli, sitting on the other side of the house, was seized with panic
and sat motionless with her finger in her mouth. Barro stood waiting
for her response while the women near her motioned to her, pulled her
dress, punched her in the ribs, until gradually the whole congregation
was remonstrating in loud whispers, which only increased the poor
little woman’s embarrassment, until, seeing that it would be a physical
impossibility for her to make her announcement, I took the risk of
the law, and rose and said: “Anuroguli wishes to announce,” etc.; and
having made her announcement for her, I closed the meeting. But, while
all recognize the propriety of this custom, it does not constitute the
marriage; for it takes place after marriage, sometimes long afterwards,
and it is not possible unless both parties are Christians.
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