The Ladies of the White House; Or, in the Home of the Presidents: Being a Complete History of the Social and Domestic Lives of the Presidents from Washington to the Present Time—1789–1881Holloway, Laura C. (Laura Carter)
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The Ladies of the White House; Or, in the Home of the Presidents: Being a Complete History of the Social and Domestic Lives of the Presidents from Washington to the Present Time—1789–1881
Holloway, Laura C. (Laura Carter)
Presidents -- United States -- Biography; Presidents' spouses -- United States -- Biography
Mrs. Randolph was “the apple of her father’s eye.” All his letters bear
witness to his affection, and all his life records this prominent
sentiment of his heart. A gentleman writing to him for his views on a
proper course of education for woman, he takes the opportunity of
complimenting her unconsciously. “A plan of female education,” he says,
“has never been a subject of systematic contemplation with me. It has
occupied my attention so far only as the education of my own daughters
occasionally required. Considering that they would be placed in a
country situation where little aid could be obtained from abroad, I
thought it essential to give them a solid education, which might enable
them—when become mothers—to educate their own daughters, and even to
direct the course for sons, should their fathers be lost, or incapable,
or inattentive.
“My surviving daughter accordingly, the mother of many daughters as well
as sons, has made their education the object of her life, and being a
better judge of the practical part than myself, it is with her aid and
that of one of her _élèves_, that I shall subjoin a catalogue of the
books for such a course of reading as we have practised.”
Again, in a letter to his grandson, Thomas Jefferson Randolph, he says:
“You kindly encourage me to keep up my spirits; but oppressed with
disease, debility, age and embarrassed affairs, this is difficult. For
myself, I should not regard a prostration of fortune; but I am
overwhelmed at the prospect of the situation in which I may leave my
family. My dear and beloved daughter, the cherished companion of my
early life, and nurse of my age, and her children, rendered as dear to
me as if my own, from having lived with me from their cradle, left in a
comfortless situation, hold up to me nothing but future gloom; and I
should not care were life to end with the line I am writing, were it not
that in the unhappy state of mind which your father’s misfortunes have
brought upon him, I may yet be of some avail to the family.”
Ex-President Jefferson died the 4th of July, 1826, and at nearly the
same hour passed away the spirit of John Adams. He lingered a little
behind Jefferson, and his last words, uttered in the failing
articulation of the dying, were: “Jefferson still survives.” Mrs.
Randolph left no written account of the scene. On the 2d of July, Mr.
Jefferson handed her a little casket. On opening it, after his death,
she found a paper on which he had written the lines of Moore,
commencing—
“It is not the tear at this moment shed
When the cold turf has just been lain o’er him”—
There is also a touching tribute to his daughter, declaring that while
he “goes to his fathers,” “the last pang of life” is in parting from
her; that “two seraphs” “long shrouded in death” (meaning doubtless his
wife and younger daughter) “await him;” that he will “bear them her
love.”
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