The Ladies of the White House; Or, in the Home of the Presidents: Being a Complete History of the Social and Domestic Lives of the Presidents from Washington to the Present Time—1789–1881Holloway, Laura C. (Laura Carter)
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The Ladies of the White House; Or, in the Home of the Presidents: Being a Complete History of the Social and Domestic Lives of the Presidents from Washington to the Present Time—1789–1881
Holloway, Laura C. (Laura Carter)
Presidents -- United States -- Biography; Presidents' spouses -- United States -- Biography
Mrs. Emily Donelson, the accomplished mistress of the White House during
General Jackson’s Presidential term, was the youngest child of Captain
John Donelson, a man of sterling integrity and irreproachable character,
perfect in all the relations of life, respected as a citizen, honored as
a Christian, and beloved as a friend and neighbor. She was born in
Davidson County, Tennessee, and educated at the Old Academy, in
Nashville. Of rare personal loveliness and superior intellect, no
expense or care was spared to fit her for the high position she was
destined to fill in society. Though her childhood was spent in what was
then called the “backwoods,” it was not passed in obscurity, for her
close relationship with Mrs. Jackson, the public prominence of her near
relations, Generals Smith, Coffee, and Hayes, and the great wealth and
high standing of her father, early made her familiar with camps and
crowds, and developed that courtly grace and ease of manner for which
she was afterwards so pre-eminent. A host of suitors contended for the
beautiful maiden’s hand, among whom were General Sam Houston, Col.
Ephraim H. Foster, and Major Gustavus A. Henry; they always spoke of her
as the “lovely Emily,” and delighted in expatiating on the charms of her
mind and person.
At the early age of sixteen she was married to her cousin, Major Andrew
J. Donelson, the protégé and confidential adviser of General Jackson.
She was ever a fond and faithful wife, sharing the joys and triumphs of
her husband, relieving his cares and sorrows, filling his home with
peace and comfort, and his heart with happiness.
On General Jackson’s election to the Presidency, he appointed Major
Donelson his private Secretary, and invited Mrs. Donelson to officiate
as mistress of ceremonies at the Executive Mansion.
To settle a delicate question of precedence between Mrs. Jackson, jr.,
and Mrs. Donelson, who were both inmates of the President’s House and
nieces of General Jackson, he said to Mrs. Jackson, “You, my dear, are
mistress of the Hermitage, and Emily is hostess of the White House.”
Both were satisfied with this decision, and ever afterward Mrs. Donelson
occupied the first position in the President’s Mansion. This was a
position that the elegance and refinement of the former mistresses of
the mansion had invested with great respect; and Mrs. Donelson filled it
as they had done, ever mindful of her dignity as a lady, and true to her
duty as a wife and mother. In all that is lovely and noble in woman, she
was the peer of her illustrious predecessors; and her tact and grace
contributed much to render General Jackson’s term such a brilliant epoch
in American history. It was a day of fierce party spirit; political
animosity spared neither sex nor condition, yet the voice of detraction
was never raised against her honored name. Friend and foe alike paid
homage to her charms.
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