The Ladies of the White House; Or, in the Home of the Presidents: Being a Complete History of the Social and Domestic Lives of the Presidents from Washington to the Present Time—1789–1881Holloway, Laura C. (Laura Carter)
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The Ladies of the White House; Or, in the Home of the Presidents: Being a Complete History of the Social and Domestic Lives of the Presidents from Washington to the Present Time—1789–1881
Holloway, Laura C. (Laura Carter)
Presidents -- United States -- Biography; Presidents' spouses -- United States -- Biography
“This scene was the more remarkable to those who witnessed it, as,
through the most of her sickness, she had been extremely nervous, being
only able to see her children for a few moments on those days on which
she was most comfortable. They could only go to her bedside to kiss her,
and then be taken away. As an evidence of her perfect composure in view
of death, I will mention this fact. It was customary in that day, at
least it was the custom in the city of Albany, for the bearers to wear
scarfs which were provided by the family of the deceased. Aunt requested
that this might be omitted at her burial, and that the amount of the
cost of such a custom should be given to the poor. Her wishes were
entirely carried out.”
The following obituary notice is in itself a sketch of the character of
Mrs. Van Buren, and was written by one who knew her better than any one
out of her own family.
_From the Albany Argus Feb. 8, 1819._
“Died in this city, on the evening of Friday, the 5th inst., after a
lingering illness, Mrs. Hannah Van Buren, wife of the Hon. Martin Van
Buren, in the thirty-sixth year of her age. The death of this amiable
and excellent woman is severely felt by a numerous circle of relatives
and friends. As a daughter and a sister, wife and mother, her loss is
deeply deplored, for in all these various relations she was
affectionate, tender, and truly estimable. But the tear of sorrow is
almost dried by the reflection that she lived the life and died the
death of the righteous. Modest and unassuming, possessing the most
engaging simplicity of manners, her heart was the residence of every
kind affection, and glowed with sympathy for the wants and sufferings of
others. Her temper was uncommonly mild and sweet, her bosom was filled
with benevolence and content—no love of show, no ambitious desires, no
pride of ostentation ever disturbed its peace. When her attention was
directed, some years before her death, to the important concerns of
religion and salvation, she presented to the gospel she embraced a rich
soil for the growth and cultivation of every Christian principle.
Humility was her crowning grace, she possessed it in a rare degree; it
took deep root and flourished full and fair, shedding over every action
of her life its genial influence. She was an ornament of the Christian
faith, exemplifying in her life the duty it enjoins, and experiencing,
in a good degree, its heavenly joys, its cheering hopes. In her last
illness she was patient and resigned. In the midst of life, with all
that could make it worth possessing—esteemed and loved, happy in her
family and friends—she was forced away. But she left all without a sigh.
She waited the approach of death with calmness—her Redeemer had robbed
it of its sting and made it a welcome messenger. Doubtless, ‘’twas gain
for her to die.’ Doubtless, she is now enjoying that rest ‘which
remaineth for the people of God.’ Precious shall be the memory of her
virtues,
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