The Ladies of the White House; Or, in the Home of the Presidents: Being a Complete History of the Social and Domestic Lives of the Presidents from Washington to the Present Time—1789–1881Holloway, Laura C. (Laura Carter)
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The Ladies of the White House; Or, in the Home of the Presidents: Being a Complete History of the Social and Domestic Lives of the Presidents from Washington to the Present Time—1789–1881
Holloway, Laura C. (Laura Carter)
Presidents -- United States -- Biography; Presidents' spouses -- United States -- Biography
“The great interest I feel in your undertaking has outweighed my
diffidence and decided me, in accordance with your request, to state
briefly some of my recollections of the habits and social traits of my
late friend, Mrs. Fillmore, with incidents of life at the White House.
“The retiring modesty of manner so inseparable from the idea of a
perfect lady, was eminently characteristic of Mrs. Fillmore. Although
well qualified and, when occasion required, ever ready to act her part
in the position which Providence assigned her, she much preferred the
quiet of domestic life. Her home was pleasant, and while she was a woman
of strong common sense, her tastes were highly refined. Especially was
she fond of music and of flowers. Her love for the former received great
gratification from her daughter’s musical attainments, and her fondness
for flowers amounted to a passion, and much of her time in her own home
was devoted to their culture and care.
“Mrs. Fillmore read much and carefully, and being possessed of excellent
powers of observation, was consequently a well-informed and cultivated
woman. With qualities like these, it is superfluous to say that, when
she was called to preside at the White House, she did it with dignity
and propriety. She was not strong in health, and had suffered much from
a sprained ankle, from which she never fully recovered. Fortunately for
her, the etiquette of Washington did not require the President and his
wife to return visits or to attend parties, though I believe the
President did sometimes dine with a cabinet minister. All the claims of
society were met and attended to by the daughter, and how well she, a
young girl just from school, acquitted herself in this trying position,
all will remember who were fortunate enough to come within the circle of
her happy influence.
“When Mr. Fillmore entered the White House he found it entirely
destitute of books. Mrs. Fillmore was in the habit of spending her
leisure hours in reading, I might almost say in studying. She was
accustomed to be surrounded with books of reference, maps, and all the
other acquirements of a well-furnished library, and she found it
difficult to content herself in a house devoid of such attractions. To
meet this want, Mr. Fillmore asked of Congress and received an
appropriation, and selected a library, devoting to that purpose a large
and pleasant room in the second story of the house. Here Mrs. Fillmore
surrounded herself with her own little home comforts, here her daughter
had her own piano, harp, and guitar, and here Mrs. Fillmore received the
informal visits of the friends she loved, and for her the real pleasure
and enjoyments of the White House were in this room. With strangers she
was dignified, quiet, and rather reserved; but with her friends, she
loved to throw aside all restraint and enjoy a good laugh and indulge in
a little vein of humor, which lay quietly hidden under the calm
exterior.
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