The Ladies of the White House; Or, in the Home of the Presidents: Being a Complete History of the Social and Domestic Lives of the Presidents from Washington to the Present Time—1789–1881Holloway, Laura C. (Laura Carter)
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The Ladies of the White House; Or, in the Home of the Presidents: Being a Complete History of the Social and Domestic Lives of the Presidents from Washington to the Present Time—1789–1881
Holloway, Laura C. (Laura Carter)
Presidents -- United States -- Biography; Presidents' spouses -- United States -- Biography
To Mrs. Lincoln more than to any other President’s wife was the White
House an ambition. She had ever aspired to reach it, and when it became
her home, it was the fruition of a hope long entertained, the
gratification of the great desire of her life. In her early youth she
repeatedly asserted that she should be a President’s wife, and so
profoundly impressed was she with this idea, that she calculated the
probabilities of such a success with all her male friends. She refused
an offer of marriage from Stephen A. Douglas, then a rising young
lawyer, doubting his ability to gratify her ambition, and accepted a man
who at that time seemed to others the least likely to be the President
of the United States.
[Illustration:
M^{RS} ABRAHAM LINCOLN
]
Mary Todd was a Kentuckian by birth, and a member of the good old Todd
family, of Lexington. Her younger years were spent in that homely town
of beautiful surroundings, with an aunt who reared her, she being an
orphan. Childhood and youth were passed in comfort and comparative
luxury, nor did she ever know poverty; but her restless nature found but
little happiness in the society of her elders, and she went, when just
merging into womanhood, to reside with her sister in Springfield. The
attraction of this, then small place, was greatly augmented by the
society of the young people, and Mary Todd passed the pleasantest years
of her life in her sister’s western home. On the 4th of November, 1842,
at the age of twenty-one, she was married to Abraham Lincoln, a
prominent lawyer, of Illinois. A letter written the following May, to
Mr. Speed, of Louisville, Kentucky, by Mr. Lincoln, contains the
following mention of his domestic life: “We are not keeping house,” he
says, “but boarding at the Globe Tavern, which is very well kept now by
a widow lady, of the name of Beck. Our rooms are the same Dr. Wallace
occupied there, and boarding only costs four dollars a week. I most
heartily wish you and your Fanny will not fail to come. Just let us know
the time, a week in advance, and we will have a room prepared for you,
and we’ll all be merry together for a while.” The pleasant spirits in
which the husband wrote, must have argued well for the married life they
had entered upon. Although much in public life, Mr. Lincoln was holding
no office at the time of his marriage, but four years later he was
elected to Congress, and took his seat December 6th, 1847. Mrs. Lincoln
did not accompany her husband to Washington, but remained at her home.
It was a season of war and general disturbance throughout the country,
and while her husband attended to his duties at the Capital, she lived
quietly with her children in Springfield. In August he returned to enter
upon the duties of his profession, and to “devote himself to them
through a series of years, less disturbed by diversions into State and
National politics than he had been during any previous period of his
business life. It was to him a time of rest, of reading, of social
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