The Ladies of the White House; Or, in the Home of the Presidents: Being a Complete History of the Social and Domestic Lives of the Presidents from Washington to the Present Time—1789–1881Holloway, Laura C. (Laura Carter)
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The Ladies of the White House; Or, in the Home of the Presidents: Being a Complete History of the Social and Domestic Lives of the Presidents from Washington to the Present Time—1789–1881
Holloway, Laura C. (Laura Carter)
Presidents -- United States -- Biography; Presidents' spouses -- United States -- Biography
withstand the temptation of coming to town though my heart would suffer
over again the cruel torture of separation.” Soon after this time, she
wrote to her eldest son in regard to his extreme reluctance at again
crossing the ocean, and for its perspicuity and terseness, for the
loftiness of its sentiments, and the sound logical advice in which it
abounds, ranks itself among the first literary effusions of the century:
“_June, 1778._
“MY DEAR SON: ’Tis almost four months since you left your native land
and embarked upon the mighty waters in quest of a foreign country.
Although I have not particularly written to you since, yet you may be
assured you have constantly been upon my heart and mind.
“It is a very difficult task, my dear son, for a tender parent, to bring
her mind to part with a child of your years, going to a distant land;
nor could I have acquiesced in such a separation under any other care
than that of the most excellent parent and guardian who accompanied you.
You have arrived at years capable of improving under the advantages you
will be likely to have, if you do but properly attend to them. They are
talents put into your hands, of which an account will be required of you
hereafter; and, being possessed of one, two, or four, see to it that you
double your number.
“The most amiable and most useful disposition in a young mind is
diffidence of itself; and this should lead you to seek advice and
instruction from him who is your natural guardian, and will always
counsel and direct you in the best manner, both for your present and
future happiness. You are in possession of a natural good understanding,
and of spirits unbroken by adversity and untamed with care. Improve your
understanding by acquiring useful knowledge and virtue, such as will
render you an ornament to society, an honor to your country, and a
blessing to your parents. Great learning and superior abilities, should
you ever possess them, will be of little value and small estimation,
unless virtue, honor, truth, and integrity are added to them. Adhere to
those religious sentiments and principles which were early instilled
into your mind, and remember that you are accountable to your Maker for
all your words and actions. Let me enjoin it upon you to attend
constantly and steadfastly to the precepts and instructions of your
father, as you value the happiness of your mother and your own welfare.
His care and attention to you render many things unnecessary for me to
write, which I might otherwise do; but the inadvertency and heedlessness
of youth require line upon line and precept upon precept, and, when
enforced by the joint efforts of both parents, will, I hope, have a due
influence upon your conduct; for, dear as you are to me, I would much
rather you should have found your grave in the ocean you have crossed,
or that any untimely death crop you in your infant years, than see you
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