The Ladies of the White House; Or, in the Home of the Presidents: Being a Complete History of the Social and Domestic Lives of the Presidents from Washington to the Present Time—1789–1881Holloway, Laura C. (Laura Carter)
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The Ladies of the White House; Or, in the Home of the Presidents: Being a Complete History of the Social and Domestic Lives of the Presidents from Washington to the Present Time—1789–1881
Holloway, Laura C. (Laura Carter)
Presidents -- United States -- Biography; Presidents' spouses -- United States -- Biography
In April, the loss of her infant, together with constant anxiety for the
safety of her husband, shattered the remaining strength of Mrs.
Jefferson. Toward the close of 1781, she rallied. Her last child was
born the 8th of May, 1782. Greater apprehensions than usual had preceded
the event and they were fatally verified. The delicate constitution was
irrevocably sapped. “A momentary hope for her might sometimes flutter in
the bosom of her lonely husband, but it was in reality a hope against
hope, and he knew it to be so. That association which had been the first
joy of his life, which blent itself with all his future visions of
happiness, which was to be the crowning glory of that delightful retreat
he was forming, and which was to shed mellow radiance over the
retirement to which he was fondly looking forward, was now to end; and
it was only a question of weeks, or, possibly, months, how soon it would
end. Mrs. Jefferson had returned her husband’s affection, with not only
the fervor of a woman whose dream of love and pride (for what woman is
not proud of the world’s estimation of her husband?) has been more than
gratified, but with the idolatrous gratitude of a wife who knew how
often that husband had cast away the most tempting honors without a
sigh, when her own feeble health had solicited his presence and
attentions. And now, as the dreadful hour of parting approached, her
affection became painfully, almost wildly absorbing. The faithful
daughter of the church had no dread of the hereafter, but she yearned to
remain with her husband with that yearning which seems to have power to
retard even the approaches of death. Her eyes ever rested on him, ever
followed him. When he spoke, no other sound could reach her ear or
attract her attention. When she waked from slumber, she looked
momentarily alarmed and distressed, and ever appeared to be frightened,
if the customary form was not bending over her, the customary look upon
her. For weeks Mr. Jefferson sat at that bedside, only catching brief
intervals of rest.”
She died on the 6th of September. Her eldest daughter, Mrs. Randolph,
many years afterward, said of the sad scene: “He nursed my poor mother
in turn with Aunt Carr and her own sister, sitting up with her and
administering her medicines and drink to the last. For four months that
she lingered, he was never out of calling; when not at her bedside he
was writing in a small room which opened immediately into hers.”
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