The Land Beyond the Forest: Facts, Figures, and Fancies from TransylvaniaGerard, E. (Emily)
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The Land Beyond the Forest: Facts, Figures, and Fancies from Transylvania
Gerard, E. (Emily)
Transylvania (Romania) -- Description and travel
When a Tzigane dies, men and women assemble with loud howling, and the
corpse, after having been prepared for burial, is carried on horseback
to the grave, which is made in some lonely spot, often deep in the
forest. A chieftain is buried with much pomp, his people tearing their
hair and scratching their faces in sign of mourning.
The abrupt transitions of joy to grief, and _vice versâ_, so
characteristic of the Tzigane nature, are nowhere more apparent than
in their rejoicings and their mournings. Thus each funeral ends with
dancing and joyful songs, while every wedding terminates in howling and
moaning.
The relations between the sexes are mostly free, and unrestrained
by any attempt at morality. Unions oftenest take place without any
attendant formalities, but in some hordes a sort of barbaric ceremony
is kept up. The man, or rather boy—for he is often not more than
fourteen or fifteen years of age—selects the girl happening to please
him best, without any particular regard for relationship, and leads
her before the Gako, where she breaks an earthen-ware jar or dish at
the feet of the man to whom she gives herself. Each party collects a
portion of the broken pieces and keeps them carefully. If these pieces
are lost, either by accident or voluntarily, then both parties are
free, and the union thus dissolved can only be renewed by the breaking
of another vessel in the same manner.
[Illustration: GYPSY GIRL.]
The number of pieces into which the earthen-ware has been shattered is
supposed to denote the number of years the couple will live together;
and when the girl is anxious to pay a compliment to her bridegroom she
stamps upon the fragments, in order to increase their number.
Sometimes, but rarely, the Tzigane is capable of violent and enduring
love; and cases where lovers have killed their sweethearts out of
jealousy are not unknown.
The Tziganes assimilate more easily with the Roumanians than with any
of the neighboring races; and marriages between them, although not
frequent, yet sometimes take place.
Some twelve or fifteen years ago, an Austrian officer, garrisoned in a
small Transylvanian town, fell violently in love with a beautiful gypsy
girl belonging to a wandering tribe. He carried his infatuation so far
as to offer to marry her. The beautiful bohemian, however, refused to
abandon her roving comrades; and at last the lover, seeing that he
could not win her in any other way, and being convinced that he could
not possibly exist without her, gave up his military rank, and for her
sake became a gypsy himself, wandering about with the band, and sharing
all their hardships and privations. How this peculiar union turned out
in the end, and whether _à la longue_ the gentleman remained of opinion
that the world was well lost for love, is unknown; but several years
later the _cidevant_ officer was recognized as a member of a roving
band of gypsies somewhere in northern Greece.
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