Poor -- New York (State) -- New York; Social settlements
A silly, pretty little woman, whose husband at times was cruel and brutal,
ran away from him with another man. No one in the neighborhood could
remember when such a thing had happened before, and the neighborhood
resented it as a disgrace. The husband's brutality was well known; he was
despised and ignored by the better element of men in the neighborhood. Had
the wife gone alone, she would have had the support of a respectable
minority, but now the husband was the object of deep sympathy. When the
wife was found, and declared she would gladly starve with the partner of
her disgrace--and there was a fair prospect at the time that she
would--"than have the best in the land with my husband; he has kicked me
out for the last time," she was cast out of the books of remembrance in
that neighborhood. "She married him for better or worse," was the measure
of a wife's duty among these wives and mothers.
The admiration of the explorer into this world of work and homes grows with
the years for the people who make it, as indignation grows at the
misunderstanding of its limitations, its possibilities, its beauty and
greatness. For Matthew Arnold gave the true definition of greatness when he
said it was the obstacles overcome, not his attainments, that made a man
great. The explorer makes many discoveries--some that stimulate and
surprise, some that puzzle and depress. The silence of love in this world
is a revelation. Whether the terms of endearment are not in the language of
this world, or whether the want of leisure and privacy stifle them, it is
difficult to decide. Perhaps it is that the language of love is learned in
a mother's arms; that when her service to her child must be physical, when
it is but one of a thousand things demanding her care and thought--when her
muscles must serve unceasingly--she has no time to express the love that
strengthens them by words. It may be that the language of love does not
grow within crowded walls, and that it is forced to express itself in
service.
[Illustration: A BIT OF OLD GREENWICH.]
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