The Library of Work and Play: HousekeepingGilman, Elizabeth Hale
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The Library of Work and Play: Housekeeping
Gilman, Elizabeth Hale
Home economics
A woman who does her housework without assistance should expend some of
her conscientiousness upon getting a rest. Fourteen hours is too long a
work-day for any one. She must get it out of her mind that to rest is
to acknowledge defeat and weakness; far from it--it is such a difficult
thing to do that she will probably have to learn how. Some people find
that it rests them most to lie down and read a pleasant book; others
can, or can teach themselves, to sleep. Others, yet, find that to do
nothing is like slipping the belt off the fly-wheel of an engine,
their minds run the faster for having no work to hold them back. A
remedy for this is just to say one's prayers--not prayers of asking,
but prayers of realization, of companionship.
There is also relief which should be accepted or secured for oneself
as the work is being done. To change one's broom from side to side; to
carry a pail first in one hand then in the other; to straighten one's
body and fill one's lungs now and again when washing or ironing or
sewing; to spare one's hands and feet; to occupy the time spent in long
tasks with pleasant thoughts--all these are things which help us to be
well and glad and to keep the secret that we are sometimes tired and
troubled.
To return now to the other type of housekeeping secrets; it is less
unsafe to share pleasant secrets than painful ones, but often even
these are better kept. Unusual expedients, surprising shifts, the plan
which pops into your head at dinner for using a left-over to-morrow are
all better kept to oneself, or at least kept until the thing is so far
past that only the funny side of it remains. The girl in Miss Austen's
"A Nameless Nobleman," who basted her grandmother's bed-curtains and
valance into a wedding dress and refused to tell where it had come from
had woman wisdom. Her husband appreciated the joke much more when, a
few months later, he saw the same embroidery adorning his bed.
We need to realize the dignity and usefulness of housekeeping; we
must recognize that it is an active, clever employment in which there
is much to learn, much to be found out; we may well regard it as a
profession deserving our strength and time for life--and yet----
We must never be so absorbed in its importance or occupied with its
affairs, that we cannot be quiet, and listen. For it may be that
across many, many years we shall hear a voice saying lovingly and yet
reprovingly: "Martha, Martha----" Perhaps we may need to lie awake
and question ourselves, as I think that other Martha must have done
in the still night at Bethany. Why should earnest, careful service be
unacceptable? Why does a weary guest, who often has hardly the time to
eat bread, care little for a feast? Is there something more required of
a woman than keeping her household warmed and fed, and something less
required than notable success in her own work?
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