The life and times of the Rev. Samuel Wesley: Rector of Epworth and father of the Revs. John and Charles Wesley, the founders of the MethodistsTyerman, L. (Luke)
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The life and times of the Rev. Samuel Wesley: Rector of Epworth and father of the Revs. John and Charles Wesley, the founders of the Methodists
Tyerman, L. (Luke)
Church of England -- Clergy -- Biography; Wesley, Samuel, 1662-1735
No wonder that Samuel Wesley was passionately attached to such a wife.
She was in her person not only graceful but beautiful. Sir Peter Lely,
the painter of the “beauties” of his age, has left a portrait of her
sister Judith, representing her as a lady of rare charms; and yet one
who knew them both has said, “Beautiful as Miss Annesley appears, she
was far from being as beautiful as Mrs Wesley.” If her husband had not
loved and respected her as much as she loved and respected him, he would
have been unworthy of her. Four years after their marriage, and when
cooped up in the miserable little parsonage at South Ormsby, Mr Wesley
published his “Life of Christ,” in which there is the following poetic
portrait of his noble-hearted wife, and of the sort of life they lived
in their humble hut, near the shores of the German sea:—
“She graced my humble roof, and blest my life,
Blest me by a far greater name than wife;
Yet still I bore an undisputed sway,
Nor was’t her task, but pleasure, to obey;
Scarce thought, much less could act, what I denied,
In our low house there was no room for pride;
Nor need I e’er direct what still was right,
She studied my convenience and delight.
Nor did I for her care ungrateful prove,
But only used my power to show my love.
Whate’er she asked I gave, without reproach or grudge,
For still she reason asked, and I was judge.
All my commands, requests at her fair hands,
And her requests to me were all commands.
To others thresholds rarely she’d incline.
Her house her pleasure was, and she was mine;
Rarely abroad, or never, but with me,
Or when by pity called, or charity.”
Such was the nuptial life of Samuel and Susanna Wesley. They were
married about the year 1689, but where and by whom there is no evidence
to show. For about forty-six years they bravely battled with their
domestic trials, and, after a seven years’ separation, were, in 1742,
reunited in that happy world, where “the wicked cease from troubling and
the weary are at rest.” “No man,” says Southey, “was ever more suitably
mated than Samuel Wesley. The wife whom he chose was, like himself, the
child of a man eminent among the Nonconformists, and, like himself, in
early life she had chosen her own path. She had examined the controversy
between the Dissenters and the Church of England with conscientious
diligence, and satisfied herself that the schismatics were in the wrong.
She had reasoned herself into Socinianism, from which her husband
reclaimed her. She was an admirable woman, an obedient wife, an
exemplary mother, and a fervent Christian. The marriage was blest in all
its circumstances; it was contracted in the prime of their youth; it was
fruitful and death did not divide them till they were full of days.”
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
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