The life and times of the Rev. Samuel Wesley: Rector of Epworth and father of the Revs. John and Charles Wesley, the founders of the MethodistsTyerman, L. (Luke)
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The life and times of the Rev. Samuel Wesley: Rector of Epworth and father of the Revs. John and Charles Wesley, the founders of the Methodists
Tyerman, L. (Luke)
Church of England -- Clergy -- Biography; Wesley, Samuel, 1662-1735
Very shortly after his removal to Epworth, his daughter Mehetabel was
born. Henry Moore and Adam Clarke say, she was her mother’s tenth or
eleventh child; but that is an evident mistake, for Mehetabel was born
in 1697, which was only the eighth year after her mother’s
marriage.[107] The whole of the Wesley family were gifted with poetic
genius, but Mehetabel perhaps shone the brightest, Samuel and Charles
not excepted. From her childhood, she was gay and sprightly, full of
mirth, good humour, and keen wit. At the early age of eight years, she
had made such proficiency in learning, that she could read the Greek
Testament. When about twenty-seven years of age, she was prevented
marrying a man whom her father called “an unprincipled lawyer;” and, in
the height of her vexation, made the rash vow, either never to marry
another, or to take the first that might offer. Shortly after, she had
an offer of marriage from a man named Wright, a journeyman plumber and
glazier. Her father, fearing that she might still marry the man who had
jilted her, urged her to marry Wright. She unhappily did so, and found
her husband to be utterly unsuited to her in all respects. Her uncle
Matthew gave her a small marriage portion, and, with this, Wright set up
business for himself. He then began to associate with low dissolute
companions, spent his evenings from home, became a drunkard; and, by
ill-treatment, broke the heart of his wife. In a most exquisite poetical
address to her husband, she speaks of her “heart-breaking sighs and
fruitless tears;” often does she spend “half the lonely night” in
waiting for her absent husband, and then, on his coming home from his
carousals, “curbs her sighs, conceals her cares,” dashes away her tears;
and, to please him, puts on a cheerful “smile.” But despite all her
attention and her tenderness, he still runs to “obscure and unclean
retreats,” and associates with drunken blackguards, who, as a great
achievement, grin at “obscene jests and witless oaths.” She then
concludes her poem with the threat, that if this effort to regain his
affection fails, she will abandon patience, and give herself up to rage
and grief, until death restores to Wright his liberty, and gives him the
opportunity “to laugh when Hetty is no more.”[108]
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Footnote 107:
_See_ Clarke’s _Wesley Family_. Note, vol. ii. p. 136.
Footnote 108:
Moore’s _Life of Wesley_, vol. i., p. 75.
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Her husband carried on his business of plumbing and glazing in Frith
Street, Soho, London. They had several children, all of whom died young.
On the death of one of her infants in 1728, she wrote the following
beautifully pathetic, but sad and saddening poem:—
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