Bracciolini, Poggio, 1380-1459; Italy -- History -- 1268-1492
“Being determined therefore to employ myself in secular concerns, in
forming my matrimonial engagement, I adopted those principles which have
obtained the approbation of the wise and learned. For in the choice of
a wife, I was not influenced by riches, which render the generality of
men blind to their true interests—nor was I prompted by a wish to rise
to civil honours, or to strengthen my interest with the great. These are
objects of earnest desire to the multitude at large. But I was influenced
by different motives. In looking out for a partner for life, I looked
for honour, probity, virtue, which the wisest of men have declared to be
the most ample dower which a parent can bestow upon his child. Being,
then, well acquainted with the excellent dispositions, the modesty, and
the other characteristic virtues of a certain young lady of noble family,
who had not yet completed her eighteenth year, on her I fixed my choice.
The exemplariness of this lady’s manners was acknowledged by every body
who was acquainted with her; and the excellence of her character I
esteemed her most striking recommendation. Such indeed is her beauty,
that I cannot but occasionally reflect with seriousness on the disparity
of our years—however, as I knew that from her tender youth, she had
been educated in such a manner, that she had a still greater share of
good principles and of modesty, than of comeliness and grace of person,
I determined to make her my own. Nor have I repented of my resolution.
For so much does she daily rise in my esteem, that I continually give
thanks to God, who, in former times has always blessed me with more than,
on account of my sins, I could possibly deserve; and in bestowing upon
me so excellent a wife, has so bountifully provided for my comfort and
satisfaction, that there is nothing that I can wish for in addition to
his present mercies.
“Our friend Zucharo was accustomed to say, when he wished to commend some
exquisitely dressed dish, that it was so delicately seasoned that the
least alteration in its composition would spoil it. So say I of my wife.
There is nothing which I wish to be added to her character, nor any thing
which I wish to be taken away from it.
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