Mr. Aston was elected a Fellow of the Royal Society in 1678. He held
the office of Secretary between 1681 and 1685; and he was the author
of some observations on certain unknown ancient characters, which were
published in the Philosophical Transactions for 1693.
This letter has been referred to in pages 270 and 303, and was written
when Newton was only twenty-six years of age. It is in every respect an
interesting document.
“_Trinity College, Cambridge,
May 18, 1669._
“SIR,
“Since in your letter you give mee so much liberty of spending
my judgement about what may be to your advantage in travelling,
I shall do it more freely than perhaps otherwise would have been
decent. First, then, I will lay down some general rules, most of
which, I believe, you have considered already; but if any of them
be new to you, they may excuse the rest; if none at all, yet is my
punishment more in writing than yours in reading.
“When you come into any fresh company, 1. Observe their humours. 2.
Suit your own carriage thereto, by which insinuation you will make
their converse more free and open. 3. Let your discours be more in
querys and doubtings than peremptory assertions or disputings, it
being the designe of travellers to learne, not to teach. Besides,
it will persuade your acquaintance that you have the greater
esteem of them, and soe make them more ready to communicate what
they know to you; whereas nothing sooner occasions disrespect and
quarrels than peremtorinesse. You will find little or no advantage
in seeming wiser or much more ignorant than your company. 4. Seldom
discommend any thing though never so bad, or doe it but moderately,
lest you bee unexpectedly forced to an unhansom retraction. It
is safer to commend any thing more than it deserves, than to
discommend a thing soe much as it deserves; for commendations meet
not soe often with oppositions, or, at least, are not usually soe
ill resented by men that think otherwise, as discommendations;
and you will insinuate into men’s favour by nothing sooner than
seeming to approve and commend what they like; but beware of doing
it by a comparison. 5. If you bee affronted, it is better, in
a forraine country, to pass it by in silence, and with a jest,
though with some dishonour, than to endeavour revenge; for, in the
first case, your credit’s ne’er the worse when you return into
England, or come into other company that have not heard of the
quarrell. But, in the second case, you may beare the marks of the
quarrell while you live, if you outlive it at all. But, if you
find yourself unavoidably engaged, ’tis best, I think, if you can
command your passion and language, to keep them pretty evenly at
some certain moderate pitch, not much hightning them to exasperate
your adversary, or provoke his friends, nor letting them grow
overmuch dejected to make him insult. In a word, if you can keep
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