“To me and to others as far as I can judge,” writes Cousin Ellie about
this date, “she is the warmest-hearted person ever I came across.”
And six months later, reviewing the events of an eventful year, S. J.-B.
writes:
“But among the events of the old year, first and chief, my becoming
friends with my darlings, my stars, and getting acquainted with the
Evans and all the Norfolk folks.”
CHAPTER VI
LIFE AT QUEEN’S COLLEGE
Meanwhile, in the world outside, the feminist movement was beginning to
make itself felt,—if one may describe by so inadequate a name an
uprising which is due perhaps as much to the men as to the women who
have taken part in it. As regards the whole movement S. J.-B. was living
as completely in a backwater as was possible to a girl of her position
and natural gifts; but sooner or later a current from the main river was
bound to come in even to her little creek.
In the spring of 1858 she had made the acquaintance of Miss Benson,
sister of the Archbishop. “Henry and Ada Benson came,” is the brief
record in her diary. “Pleasant, jolly girl, Ada.” The wanderings of that
pleasant summer hindered the development of the friendship for the
moment, but the thread was happily taken up again in the autumn.
“Yesterday went with Ada to the Swedish minstrels. Very strange and
beautiful.... After concert went for a drive in the pony-chaise. Just
beyond the battery a carriage and pair drove into us. Coachman got
down and was very civil. Everyone said it was no fault of mine; he was
trying to cut in between two. I was not the least frightened.
Speaking to Ada on Thursday night revived the idea of Queen’s College.
Her sister there. Wrote Friday for prospectus. Tried to speak to Daddy
last night. He very impracticable, I after a while very undutiful. At
last I went into hysterics[13] which frightened him dreadfully, poor
old man. I shall certainly go, I think. Michaelmas term begins 4th
prox. I should very much like a year’s or even less, good work, and a
few certificates.
Very good last night Ada Benson’s story of the Bishop of —— ‘Opposed
as I am to the Catholic faith, opposed, as I say I am to the Catholic
faith...’ on which a priest from the body of the meeting, —‘Which
faith except..., etc.’”
Footnote 13:
It was an interesting and typical stage in the development of women
when a girl found it necessary to “go into hysterics” in order to
convince her father of her right to an education.
How she always did delight in a good story! The most strenuous passages
of the diary are interspersed with pages of jokes, riddles, anagrams,
_bon-mots_, some very good, some as she herself admits on reflection,
very indifferent. She used to say that a sense of humour had been her
salvation,—that, but for that, she never could have got through the many
struggles of her life.
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