All this is taking us somewhat ahead of the early friendships at
Queen’s, but the frank recognition of this aspect of her character is
essential to an adequate understanding of her life even in those days. A
Queen’s College friend who, in the most admirable and magnanimous spirit
had accepted what might be reckoned a heavy obligation to S. J.-B. and
her Father, writes as follows:
“I wish to tell you (I could not before, but think it right now) that
this ... will be more of a personal advantage and enjoyment to me than
anything else in the world....
With all my heart I rejoice to acknowledge an _immense_ obligation to
you for your love to me at all times and for this particular way of
showing it, but _not_ that sort of obligation which shall in any way
affect my words and doings with you for the future.”
If friendships are to be weighed, not counted, S. J.-B. was, even at
this period, fortunate in her possession of them. The Norfolk cousins,
the Cordery family, Miss Wodehouse, Miss Ada Benson, Miss Lucy Walker
(afterwards Mrs. Unwin) who was her junior at Queen’s, Miss Martha
Heaton (Mrs. Hilhouse) a fellow teacher,—are the names that occur to one
most readily. And at this time there came into her life a friendship
that was destined to make a deeper impression on her than any of these,—
the deepest impression, in fact, of any in the whole of her life.
This is how it began:
“Jan. 26th. 1860. Just had a lesson in book-keeping from Miss
[Octavia] Hill. Clever, pleasant girl,—much nicer than I thought.
Dined with me. What and how the deuce am I to pay her? £1 1s., I
suppose. Dear old Patty Heaton! How fond I am of her, and what
wonderfully good friends we are!”
“Jan. 27th. I am sure I am a good companion for her (Miss Heaton) if
only in amusing her. I think laughing does her a deal of good—hearty
fun. I rejoice in her exceedingly. And I hope for another sort of
friend, or ally at least, in Miss Hill who came and taught me book-
keeping yesterday evening. Nice, sensible, clever. Very good worker, I
expect.”
In the published _Life_ of Miss Octavia Hill, one cannot but observe how
good this dawning friendship was for her also, how beneficient was the
sunshine that it brought into her somewhat grey young life. On Feb. 5th,
1860, she writes to her sister:
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