The literature of kissing : $b gleaned from history, poetry, fiction, and anecdoteBombaugh, Charles C. (Charles Carroll)
History
The literature of kissing : $b gleaned from history, poetry, fiction, and anecdote
Bombaugh, Charles C. (Charles Carroll)
Kissing
It is contended by an American humorist, in an argument in favor of
osculation, that it would imply a great want of reverence in us if we
were to set ourselves up as wiser than our ancestors, and refuse to
continue a practice that has been sanctioned by their approval. Yet,
if we follow the curious aberrations in the extent of favor accorded
to it by these ancestors during the last century, we shall be somewhat
puzzled over the reflex as we find it in the novels of different periods.
With the exception of Richardson, however, it must be owned that the
eighteenth-century novelists, from Fielding and Smollett down to the time
of the appearance of Goldsmith, and Maria Edgeworth, and Jane Austen,
prove the truth of the remark of Shaw (“History of English Literature”)
that “the time when Fielding wrote was remarkable for the low tone of
manners and sentiment; perhaps the lowest that ever prevailed in England,
for it was precisely a juncture when the romantic spirit of the old
chivalrous manners was extinguished, and before the modern standard of
refinement was introduced.” Accordingly, in Fielding and Smollett the
heroes and heroines kiss with all the gusto of a coarse and licentious
age, and without waiting for the interesting time which the novelists of
our day select for granting the first long kiss of affection. The readers
of Fielding’s “Amelia” will remember the insulting young nobleman who,
upon meeting the heroine at Vauxhall, cries out, “Let the devil come as
soon as he will, d——n me if I have not a kiss.”
In singular contrast with such athletic and boisterous rudeness are the
overwrought refinement and strained sentiment of Richardson, Fielding’s
contemporary and sometime friend. In the one it is an outbreak of
coarseness or ungoverned passion; in the other it is a ceremonial whose
observance is attended with decorum and solemnity. As a consequence,
there is a great deal of the “naughty but nice” fascination in the
former, and a large proportion of tedious and mawkish twaddle in the
latter. For a specimen of Richardson’s namby-pambyism we may advert to
his “Sir Charles Grandison,” in which we are told that after leaving
Italy and returning to England Sir Charles solicits the hand of Harriet
Byron in true Grandisonian manner. It is amusing to see the lofty style
in which this mirror of chivalry makes love, and to note the extravagance
of his compliments. But let Miss Byron tell the story:
“‘There seems,’ said he, ‘to be a mixture of generous concern and kind
curiosity in one of the loveliest and most intelligent faces in the
world.’”
“‘Thus,’ resumed he, snatching my hand and ardently pressing it with his
lips, ‘do I honor to myself for the honor done me. How poor is man, that
he cannot express his gratitude to the object of his vows for obligations
confessed, but by owing to her new obligations!’” [What a formal pedant
of a lover!]
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