The Lord's Coming. Miscellaneous Writings of C. H. Mackintosh, vol. IIMackintosh, Charles Henry
Religion
The Lord's Coming. Miscellaneous Writings of C. H. Mackintosh, vol. II
Mackintosh, Charles Henry
Theology
_But let all be viewed in the light of testimony for God's Son._ It is
to further this we are left here. We are surely not left here merely
to bring up families. We are left here to bring them up for God, with
God, by God, and before God. To do all this, we must be much in His
presence. A Christian parent should take great care not to punish his
children merely to gratify his whims and tempers. He is to represent
God in the midst of his family. This, when properly understood, will
regulate every thing. He is God's steward, likewise, and in order
rightly and intelligently to discharge the functions of his
stewardship, he must have frequent--yea, unbroken--intercourse with
his Master. He must be constantly betaking himself to His feet, to
know what he is to do, and how he is to do it. This will make every
thing easy and happy. It is often the desire of one's heart to get an
abstract rule for this, that, and the other thing, in the details of
family arrangement. One may ask what sort of punishments, what sort of
rewards, what sort of amusements, should a Christian parent adopt.
Actual punishment will, I believe, rarely be called for, if the divine
principle of government be carried out from the earliest date; and as
to rewards, it would be better to put them in the light of expressions
of love and approval. A child must be obedient--unqualifiedly and
unhesitatingly obedient--not to get a reward, which is apt to feed
emulation, a fruit of the flesh; but because God would have him so;
and then, of course, it is quite allowable for the parent to express
his approval in the shape of some little present. As to amusement, let
it always, if possible, assume the character of some useful
occupation. This is most salutary. It is a bad thing to cherish the
thought in the mind of a child that painted toys and gilded baubles
minister pleasure. With very young children, I have constantly found
that they derived more real, and certainly much more simple pleasure
from a piece of stick or paper made out by themselves, than from the
most expensive toy. Finally, let us, in all things, whether
punishment, reward, or amusement, keep the eye on Christ, and
earnestly seek the subjugation of the flesh in every shape and form.
So shall our houses be a testimony for God, and all who enter them be
constrained to say, "GOD IS HERE."
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