The Love Affairs of Lord ByronGribble, Francis Henry
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The Love Affairs of Lord Byron
Gribble, Francis Henry
Byron, George Gordon Byron, Baron, 1788-1824 -- Relations with women; Poets, English -- 19th century -- Biography
"I need not tell you of the obloquy and opprobrium that were cast upon
my name when our separation was made public. I once made a list from
the Journals of the day of the different worthies, ancient and modern,
to whom I was compared. I remember a few: Nero, Apicius, Epicurus,
Caligula, Heliogabalus, Henry the Eighth, and lastly the ----. All my
former friends, even my cousin George Byron, who had been brought up
with me, and whom I loved as a brother, took my wife's part. He
followed the stream when it was strongest against me, and can never
expect anything from me: he shall never touch a sixpence of mine. I
was looked upon as the worst of husbands, the most abandoned and
wicked of men, and my wife as a suffering angel--an incarnation of
all the virtues and perfections of the sex. I was abused in the public
prints, made the common talk of private companies, hissed as I went to
the House of Lords, insulted in the streets, afraid to go to the
theatre, whence the unfortunate Mrs. Mardyn had been driven with
insult. The _Examiner_ was the only paper that dared say a word in my
defence, and Lady Jersey the only person in the fashionable world that
did not look upon me as a monster."
"I was accused of every monstrous vice by public rumour and private
rancour; my name which had been a knightly or a noble one since my
fathers helped to conquer the kingdom for William the Norman, was
tainted. I felt that, if what was whispered, and muttered, and
murmured was true, I was unfit for England; if false, England was
unfit for me."
The former of these passages is from Medwin's "Conversations"; the latter
is written by Byron's own hand. There is very little to be added to the
picture which they draw. Byron discovered that, for a man of his
notoriety, there was no such thing as private life. His business was
assumed to be everybody's business. In his case, just as in the Dreyfus
case, at a later date, all the world took a side, and those who knew least
of the rights of the case were the most vehement in their indignation.
Broadly speaking one may say that his friends were for him but his
acquaintances were against him, and the mob took the part of his
acquaintances. Hobhouse, Hodgson, Moore, Rogers, Leigh Hunt, and Scrope
Davies never faltered in their allegiance. On the other hand, many social
leaders cut him; the journalists showered abuse on him as spitefully as if
they felt that they had "failed in literature" through his fault; the
religious seized the opportunity to punish him for what they considered
the immoral tone of his writings; the pit and gallery at Drury Lane
classed him with the villain of the melodrama who presumes to lay his hand
upon a woman otherwise than in the way of kindness. It was a combination
as irresistible as it was unforeseen, and he had to yield to it.
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
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