The Love Affairs of Lord ByronGribble, Francis Henry
General
The Love Affairs of Lord Byron
Gribble, Francis Henry
Byron, George Gordon Byron, Baron, 1788-1824 -- Relations with women; Poets, English -- 19th century -- Biography
"Nothing can be less sublime than the true source of these
expressions of contempt and desperation. The fact is that, first, the
Italian women with whom he associates are, perhaps, the most
contemptible of all who exist under the moon--the most ignorant, the
most disgusting, the most bigoted; Countesses smell so strongly of
garlic that an ordinary Englishman cannot approach them. Well, L. B.
is familiar with the lowest sort of these women, the people his
gondolieri pick up in the streets. He associates with wretches who
seem almost to have lost the gait and physiognomy of man, and who do
not scruple to avow practices, which are not only not named, but I
believe, seldom even conceived in England. He says he disapproves, but
he endures. He is heartily and deeply discontented with himself; and
contemplating in the distorted mirror of his own thoughts the nature
and habits of man, what can he behold but objects of contempt and
despair?... And he has a certain degree of candour while you talk to
him, but, unfortunately, it does not outlast your departure. No, I do
not doubt, and for his sake I ought to hope, that his present career
must end soon in some violent circumstance."
This, it is to be remarked, is the picture, not of an enemy, but of a
friend--one who already admired Byron as the greatest poet of his
generation, and was to learn to admire him as one of its greatest men: a
man capable of doing great things as well as dreaming them. Evidently,
therefore, it is, as far as it goes, a true picture, though there is
something to be added to it--something which blackens, and also something
which brightens it.
Byron, to begin with, was, during this dark period, as careless of his
appearance as of his morals. It was not necessary to his facile conquests
among the Venetian courtesans that he should be either sober or
well-groomed. It may even, on the contrary, have been necessary that he
should drink too much and go unkempt in order to live comfortably on their
level. At all events he did drink too much--preferring fiery spirits to
the harmless Italian wines--and indulged a large appetite for
miscellaneous foods, and ceased his frequentation of the barber's shop;
with the result that the flesh, set free from its customary discipline,
revolted and spread abroad, and Hanson, who came to Byron at Venice to
settle about the sale of Newstead to Colonel Wildman, reported to Augusta
that he had found him "_fat_, immensely large, and his hair long." James
Wedderburn Webster, a few months later, heard of his "corpulence" as
"stupendous;" and Byron, while objecting to that epithet, was constrained
to admit that it was considerable.
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
Reviews
Reviews
No reviews yet
Be the first to share your thoughts on this work.
Elsewhere in the archive
Join the Discussion
Join the discussion
Sign in to leave a comment or review.
Sign InorCreate an account