The Love Affairs of Lord ByronGribble, Francis Henry
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The Love Affairs of Lord Byron
Gribble, Francis Henry
Byron, George Gordon Byron, Baron, 1788-1824 -- Relations with women; Poets, English -- 19th century -- Biography
He removed her from Venice a very few days afterwards; but by that time
the mischief was done, and it was not the heart only that had been lost.
Byron had pressed his suit with impetuous precipitation, and Countess
Guiocioli had yielded--without, as it would seem, the least idea that
there could be any harm in her doing so.
Morality, as has been said, is a matter partly of geography and partly of
chronology; and, in the Italy of those days, no woman got credit for
fidelity unless she had a lover, as well as a husband, to be faithful to.
So Madame Guiccioli punctuated her departure with fainting fits, and then
wrote Byron appealing letters, begging him to follow her as soon as she
had prepared the minds of her relatives to receive him.
To do so occupied her until the first days of June; and the further
development of events may be best related in extracts from Byron's
letters:
"About the 20th I leave Venice, to take a journey into Romagna; but
shall probably return in a month."
This to Murray, as early as May 6. On May 20, we find him still going, but
not yet gone: "Next week I set out for Romagna, at least in all
probability." On June 2, a letter addressed to Hoppner from Padua shows
that he has started, but that, the favours he sought having been accorded
to him at Venice, he is not very anxious to take a hot and dusty journey
for the purpose of following up the intrigue:
"Now to go to Cuckold a Papal Count, who, like Candide, has already
been 'the death of two men, one of whom was a priest,' in his own
house is rather too much for my modesty, when there are several other
places at least as good for the purpose. She says they must go to
Bologna in the middle of June, and why the devil then drag me to
Ravenna? However I shall determine nothing till I get to Bologna, and
probably take some time to decide when I am there, so that, the Gods
willing, you may probably see me again soon. The Charmer forgets that
a man may be whistled anywhere _before_, but that _after_, a journey
in an Italian June is a Conscription, and therefore she should have
been less liberal in Venice, or less exigent at Ravenna."
That letter is the first which throws light on the vexed question whether
Byron really loved Madame Guiccioli, or merely viewed her as an eligible
mistress. It is to be observed, however, that his conduct was less cynical
than his correspondence, and that the Countess, on her part, saw no reason
for suspecting insincerity. "I shall stay but a few days at Bologna," is
his announcement when he gets there; and the Countess relates his arrival:
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