The Love Affairs of Lord ByronGribble, Francis Henry
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The Love Affairs of Lord Byron
Gribble, Francis Henry
Byron, George Gordon Byron, Baron, 1788-1824 -- Relations with women; Poets, English -- 19th century -- Biography
"I am all in the sweat, dust, and blasphemy of an universal packing of
all my things, furniture &c., for Pisa, whither I go for the winter.
The cause has been the exile of all my fellow Carbonics, and, amongst
them, of the whole family of Madame G.; who, you know, was divorced
from her husband, last week, 'on account of P. P. clerk of this
parish,' and who is obliged to join her family and relatives, now in
exile there, to avoid being shut up in a monastery, because the Pope's
decree of separation required her to reside in _casa paterna_, or
else, for decorum's sake, in a convent. As I could not say, with
Hamlet, 'Get thee to a nunnery,' I am preparing to follow them.
"It is awful work, this love, and prevents all a man's projects of
good or glory. I wanted to go to Greece lately (as everything seems up
here), with her brother, who is a very fine, brave fellow (I have seen
him put to the proof) and wild about liberty. But the tears of a woman
who has left her husband for a man, and the weakness of one's own
heart, are paramount to these projects, and I can hardly indulge
them."
Greece again, it will be observed, and an indication that Byron is at last
more anxious to be up and doing something as the champion of desperate
causes than to lie bound with silken chains about the feet of a mistress!
A proof, too, that his mistress, on her part, already perceiving that
causes may be her rivals, feels the need of working on his feelings with
her tears! Moore prints the letters in which she appeals to him in the
first excitement of her passions and apprehensions: "Help me, my dear
Byron, for I am in a situation most terrible; and without you I can
resolve upon nothing." She has received, it seems, a passport, and also an
intimation that she must either return to her husband or go to a convent.
Not suspecting that passport and intimation came from the same source, she
talks of the necessity of escaping by night lest the passport should be
taken from her. She is in despair, and cannot bear the thought of never
seeing Byron again. If that is to be the result of quitting Romagna, then
she will remain and let them immure her, regarding that as the less
melancholy fate. And so forth, in language which may be merely
hysterical, but more probably indicates a waning confidence in her lover.
But her tears prevailed. Byron, it is true, lingered at Ravenna for some
months after her departure; but that is a circumstance of which we must
not make too much. He had his apartment at Ravenna; he had his belongings
about him; and they were considerable, including not only furniture, and
books, and manuscripts, and horses, and carriages, and dogs and cats, but
a large menagerie of miscellaneous live-stock. He could hardly be expected
to go until he and the Gambas had arranged where to settle; and their
arrangements called for much discussion and balancing of pros and cons.
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