The Love Affairs of Lord ByronGribble, Francis Henry
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The Love Affairs of Lord Byron
Gribble, Francis Henry
Byron, George Gordon Byron, Baron, 1788-1824 -- Relations with women; Poets, English -- 19th century -- Biography
So he humoured her, remembering how she had railed at the bishop on her
wedding day, knowing, no doubt, how little a thing might upset her mental
balance, and making every possible allowance; and the only attempt at
intervention came from Lady Melbourne, who remonstrated, not with Lady
Caroline, but with Byron. He struck an attitude, and waived the matter on
one side.
"You need not fear me," was his reply. "I do not pursue pleasure like
other men; I labour under an incurable disease and a blighted heart.
Believe me she is safe with me."
No one knows whether she was, in the narrow sense of the word, "safe" with
him or not. Rogers thought that she was, but admitted that he did not
really know. In any case she was not safe from herself, or from the tongue
of scandal. She was really in love--her devotion was no passing fancy--and
she did not care who knew it. Indeed she behaved as if she thought that
the more people who knew it, the better. The woman who, at a ball, called
upon Byron's friend Harness--that very serious young Cantab just about to
take orders--to bear witness that she was wearing no fewer than six pairs
of stockings, was not likely to hide the light of a grand passion under a
bushel. She did not so hide it, but proceeded, as has been said, to
_afficher_ herself as if she were inviting the attention of the world to
a great spectacular entertainment. She had not known Byron a couple of
months before people were beginning to talk.
"Your little friend Caro William," wrote the Duchess of Devonshire on
May 4, 1812, "as usual is doing all sorts of imprudent things with
him.... The ladies, I hear spoil him, and the gentlemen are jealous of
him. He is going back to Naxos, and then the husbands may sleep in
peace. I should not be surprised if Caro William were to go with him,
she is so wild and imprudent."
Rogers, in his "Table Talk," is still more picturesque. He tells us how,
when Byron and Lady Caroline quarrelled, she used to plant herself in his
(Rogers') garden, waiting to catch him on his return home and beg him to
effect a reconciliation; and he continues:
"When she met Byron at a party, she would always, if possible, return
home from it in _his_ carriage, and accompanied by _him_: I recollect
particularly their returning to town together from Holland House. But
such was the insanity of her passion for Byron that sometimes, when
not invited to a party where he was to be, she would wait for him in
the street till it was over! One night, after a great party at
Devonshire House, to which Lady Caroline had not been invited, I saw
her--yes, saw her--talking to Byron, with half of her body thrust into
the carriage which he had just entered."
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