The Love Affairs of Lord ByronGribble, Francis Henry
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The Love Affairs of Lord Byron
Gribble, Francis Henry
Byron, George Gordon Byron, Baron, 1788-1824 -- Relations with women; Poets, English -- 19th century -- Biography
"Yesterday, a very pretty letter from Annabella, which I answered.
What an odd situation and friendship is ours!--without one spark of
love on either side, and produced by circumstances which in general
lead to coldness on one side and aversion on the other. She is a very
superior woman, and very little spoiled.... She is a poetess--a
mathematician--a metaphysician, and yet withal, very kind, generous,
and gentle, with very little pretension. Any other head would be
turned with half her acquisitions, and a tenth of her advantages."
That is what Byron says; but Hobhouse adds a little more. He says that
Byron at first "believed that a certain eccentricity of education had
produced this communication from a young woman otherwise notorious for the
strictest propriety of conduct and demeanour." He also says that the tone
of the communications grew in warmth as the correspondence proceeded, and
that Byron did not make up his mind to propose marriage a second time
until "after certain expressions had been dropped by Miss Milbanke in her
letters which might easily have encouraged a bolder man than his
lordship." He says finally, and this he says, in italics, that when Byron
did propose for the second time, Miss Milbanke _accepted him by return of
post_. To which piece of information Moore adds the statement that in
order to make assurance doubly sure, she sent her acceptance in duplicate
to his town and his country addresses.
It reached him at Hastings; and Miss Milbanke proceeded to impart her news
to her friends. A passage from one of the letters--that to Miss
Milner--shows not only that she was very happy in the prospect of her
marriage, but also that she had woefully deceived herself as to the
circumstances which had preceded and led up to the proposal:
"You only know me truly in thinking that without the highest moral
esteem I could never have yielded to, if I had been weak enough to
form, an attachment. It is not in the great world that Lord Byron's
true character must be sought; but ask of those nearest to him--of the
unhappy whom he has consoled, of the poor whom he has blessed, of the
dependants to whom he is the best of masters. For his despondency I
fear I am but too answerable for the last two years."
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