Kuki (Indic people); Lushai (Asian people); Lushai language
[3. Marriage.] The Lushais have wide views as to matrimony. A young
man is not hampered in his choice by any table of prohibited degrees,
nor is his choice confined to any particular family or clan; in fact,
he can practically marry any woman he chooses except his sister or his
mother. There is, however, a certain amount of prejudice against first
cousins on the father's side marrying, but the reason generally given
for this is that when a girl's parents have to consider the question of
her marriage they naturally try to dispose of her outside the family,
in order that her price may increase the wealth of the family, not
merely transfer it from one brother to another. I have, however, been
told that girls object to marrying their "brothers." Among the chiefs
the desire to marry another chief's daughter limits the young man's
choice, and marriage among first cousins is more frequent than among
commoners. Marriage among nearly all the other clans dealt with in this
monograph is endogamous as regards the clan, but exogamous as regards
the family. When we consider the composition of the following of the
Thangur chiefs, we see at once the cause of this difference, for any
restrictions on intermarriage would have interfered with that fusion
of clans which was so necessary for the establishment of their power.
Regarding the number of his wives also the Lushai has great latitude;
in fact, it is simply a matter of money. Experience has taught
them that two wives in one house is not conducive to peace, and
consequently polygamy is almost entirely confined to the chiefs,
for few others can afford to keep up two establishments. Marriage
is purely a civil contract, although, as is described in Chapter IV,
para. 7, a pseudo-religious ceremony is performed.
Among Lushais the following sums constitute the price which has to
be paid for a wife:--
(i.) Manpui (Principal Price).--This is paid to the bride's nearest
male relative on the father's side. In case the bride's father is
dead and she has brothers these divide the manpui, but if any one of
them has contributed more than the others to the girl's support, or
has provided her "thuam"--i.e., her trousseau--he receives a larger
share of the manpui than the others.
The manpui is always reckoned in mithan, and varies according to the
family of the bride. Thus a Thangur maiden is valued at ten mithan,
while less aristocratic girls are worth less, the lowest price being
three. A custom seems springing up of counting the manpui in "tlai" =
Rs. 20/-. If the bride's "thuam," or trousseau, is a good one a sum
of Rs. 20/-, called "tlai," is added to the manpui, but should the
woman die without issue, this sum will not be paid, as the thuam will
return to her father's family. If she has children these inherit the
thuam, and therefore in such cases the tlai must be paid. The thuam
consists of necklaces, earrings, and superior cloths, not articles
for everyday use.
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
Reviews
Reviews
No reviews yet
Be the first to share your thoughts on this work.
Join the Discussion
Join the discussion
Sign in to leave a comment or review.
Sign InorCreate an account