“Need I give illustrations? Look about you on every hand. Where in all
the realm of books is the author free from this taint! But yes, there
are some. This century has seen a few, but you can count them on the
fingers of one hand. Hero worship is twice cursed. It bewilders the
hero into fantastic error and extravagance, and the fools who worship
accept for a time anything the man whom they have damned sets before
them and proclaim it truth. They extol his eccentricities into models,
his follies into virtues. Thus does hero worship work double harm.
“What is the cure? Is oblivion the only good? Is to do, to die? If I
achieve must my life go out like that of certain insects who die in the
act of generation? Wise men ask these questions over and over again. I
give you the answer. It is this--_Together man and woman were put out
of Eden. Only together hand in hand can they return._
“Woman’s love saved Shakespeare. Shakespeare’s love saved the woman,
although the world knows her not as yet. He never realized his power,
and if it had been told him that his name would go thundering down
the ages, the greatest literary name of all times, he would have been
staggered with incredulity; for if a man ever realizes or imagines he
is at the top, at once his head grows dizzy. But never fear, the heart
of woman can hold him firm. Duality exists throughout all nature. A man
alone is only half a man--a woman alone is only half a woman. The man
and woman make the perfect man. There is the male man and the female
man. Only where these two half spirits work together can they reach
perfection. For every woman there is somewhere on the earth, or in
the spirit realm a mate, for every man there is his other half; and
some time in this life or in another they will meet, and no priest
or justice of the peace can join what God has not ordained. But when
the right man meets the right woman and they live rightly, there is
an atmosphere formed where no poisonous draught can enter. These two
will say, ‘_Between us there must be honesty and truth for evermore._’
Then each will work for the approbation of the other; there will be no
flattery, for there is honesty; there will be commendation always when
deserved, but no fulsome praise. Neither will excel the other. Each
may be able to do certain things better than the other, so there will
ever be a friendly rivalry for good. The tendency to grow egotistical
is ever corrected, the poison is constantly neutralized, for how can
you be egotistical when you only work for the approbation of one who
has contributed to your work as much as you? There is ever a sharing of
every joy, of every exalted thought, of every acquisition; so the good
gained is fused. There is a perfect commingling. It is not ‘mine,’ nor
‘thine,’ but ‘ours.’ No selfish satisfaction can you take in your own
attainment when by your side stands another as great as yourself. You
are gentle, modest, and you two working together cannot but recognize a
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