The Mother of Washington and Her TimesPryor, Sara Agnes Rice
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The Mother of Washington and Her Times
Pryor, Sara Agnes Rice
Virginia -- Social life and customs; Washington, Mary Ball, 1708-1789
It is a great misfortune to us that our observant tutor was not
invited to Mount Vernon. Mr. Christian's class met at Mount Vernon,
also at "Gunston Hall"--the fine residence of the George Mason
who wrote the famous Declaration of Rights in 1776. Mrs. Martha
Washington's lovely daughter, Martha Custis, was then just thirteen
years old, and there is no doubt, not the least, that she wore
a blue silk quilt and had her hair "craped" (_crépé_) high and
interwoven with a feather. On the 18th of April, 1770, Washington
records, "Patsy Custis and Milly Posey went to Col. Mason's to the
Dancing School."
The discipline of children was stern. Their duties included the
courtesies of life as religiously as its business. "I have no
Stockings and I swear I won't go to the Dancing School," says
fifteen-year-old Bob, who is at the awkward age and dreads society.
"'Are Bob and Nancy gone to Mr. Turberville's?' said the Colonel
at Breakfast--'Nancy is gone, Sir, Bob stays at Home, he has no
shoes!' 'Poh--what nonsense,' says the Colonel. He sends the clerk
to the Plantation Store for a pair of Shoes. Bob he takes to his
Study and floggs severely for not having given seasonable notice,
and sends him instantly to the Dance" in a suitable and proper frame
of mind to enjoy himself!
Balls, fish feasts, christenings, cock-fights, horse-races and
_church-going_ filled the time as well as visiting and dancing.
Everybody went to church through all weathers. In winter the
churches were bitterly cold. No provision of any kind for heating
them was ever dreamed of. The church was one of the rallying places
for the neighborhood. "There are," says the tutor, "three grand
divisions of time at the church on Sundays; Viz: before Service
giving and receiving letters of business, reading Advertisements"
(affixed to the church-doors) "consulting about the price of
Tobacco, Grain, &c, and settling either the lineage, Age or
qualities of favourite Horses. 2. In the church at Service, prayers
read over in haste, a Sermon, seldom under and never over twenty
minutes, but always made up of sound morality, or deep-studied
Meta-physicks. 3. After Service is over, three quarters of an hour
spent in strolling round the church among the crowd in which time
invitations are given by gentlemen to go home with them to dinner."
The christenings were seasons of large family gatherings--the silver
christening bowl, like the punch-bowl, descending from generation to
generation.
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
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