Small children can respond to nearly if not quite every sort of
stimulus that adults feel. We cannot longer regard even sex as a
completely delayed drive, for traces of sex-stimulation are found in
infancy, and definite sex interest follows very early. Any social
impulse, good or bad, that adults exhibit can be found in early
childhood also under appropriate conditions of stimulation. Moreover,
in respect to the employment of intelligence there is no necessary
break between childhood and maturity, for rational processes mingle
with impulse and emotion from infancy. In fact, old-fashioned parental
authority met scarcely any obstacle greater than the capacity of
children to have a reason and to stick to it. We now know that
scientific attitudes and types of observation and inference no more
need to be postponed than does good pronunciation, which is taking the
place of the old-fashioned “baby-talk.” It is worth noting, by the way,
that “baby-talk,” wherever it exists, has been learned largely from
adults!
This psychical continuity between childhood and maturity vacates the
notion that adulthood is a ready-made set of drives or characteristics
into which we are ushered by natural laws of growth. We are what we
are, not because nature acts after the manner of destiny or fate, but
because some selective process has been at work in each individual
case. Each of us has the capacity to be very different from what he
is. It is true, of course, that there are inborn and ineradicable
differences between individuals, differences in degree of energy, in
degree of intellectual capacity, in degree of sensitiveness towards a
given sort of stimulus, and therefore differences in emotional type.
But these are entirely generic; they do not shut up an individual
to just this or that occupation, social bond, way of thinking, or
policy and habit of weighing values. If we desire to account for the
particular qualities of an individual, we must look into his whole
experience from infancy onward.
This point of view is now no longer a merely general probability.
Psychiatrists and experts in child-guidance are daily tracing to
particular experiences what seem at first sight to be native and
ineradicable personal traits. Moreover, many a bound personality is
being released by the interjection of new experiences and the formation
of corresponding new habits. This is true of both children and adults,
and it is particularly noteworthy that the release of adults often
depends upon undoing a knot that was tied in childhood.
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