One old marriage custom, though long since obsolete, may be
briefly alluded to here, not only for its singularity, but for its
suggestiveness touching a state of mind that would admit of such
tomfoolery. This was the so-called Smock-marriage, in which the bride
went through the ceremony standing only in her shift, thereby declaring
herself to be possessed of no more than she came into the world with.
On being duly recorded, the act exempted the husband from liability
for his wife’s debts previously contracted. If she went through this
ridiculous performance in the presence of witnesses, and in the “King’s
Highway,” that is to say, the lawfully laid out public road, she
thereby cleared herself from any old indebtedness. As amazing as it may
seem, several such cases are recorded in New England, the formalities
observed differing somewhat in different localities.
It is considered unlucky to get married before breakfast.
“If you marry in Lent,
You will live to repent.”
May is considered an unlucky month to be married in.
“Marry in May,
And you’ll rue the day.”
To remove an engagement or wedding ring from the finger is also a bad
omen.[17] To lose either of them, or to have them broken on the finger,
also denotes misfortune.
It is extremely unlucky for either the bride or groom to meet a
funeral when on their way to be married.
It is an unlucky omen for the church clock to strike during the
performance of a marriage ceremony, as it is said to portend the death
of one of the contracting parties before the year is out.
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IX
OF EVIL OMENS
“A woman’s story at a winter’s fire.”--_Macbeth._
We come now to those things considered as distinctly unlucky, and to be
avoided accordingly. How common is the peevish exclamation of “That’s
just my luck!” Spilling the salt, picking up a pin with the point
toward you, crossing a knife and fork, or giving any one a knife or
other sharp instrument, are all deemed of sinister import now, as of
old.
One must not kill a toad, which, though
“ugly and venomous,
Wears yet a precious jewel in its head,”
or a grasshopper, possibly by reason of the veneration in which this
voracious little insect was held by the Athenians, whose favorite
symbol it was, although it is now outlawed, and a price set upon its
head as a pest, to be ruthlessly exterminated, by some of the Western
states. So, too, with the warning not to kill a spider, against which,
nevertheless, the housemaid’s broom wages relentless war. If, on the
contrary, you do not kill the first snake seen in the spring, bad
luck will follow you all the year round. Be it ever so badly bruised,
however, the belief holds fast in the country that the reptile will not
die until sunset, or with the expiring day,
“That like a wounded snake drags its slow length along.”
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