The narrative of an explorer in tropical South AfricaGalton, Francis
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The narrative of an explorer in tropical South Africa
Galton, Francis
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and make their huts, and cook for them, leaving the men unhampered and
disengaged, ready to run and drive the oxen, and do anything that might
be wanted. Damara women have not much to complain of: they are valuable
helpmates; and divorce themselves as often as they like. The consequence
is that the marital rule depends not upon violence nor upon interest, but
upon affection. A wife costs a Damara nothing, for she “crows” her own
pig-nuts, and she is of positive use, because she builds and plasters
his hut, cooks his victuals, and carries his things when he moves from
place to place. A Damara seldom beats his wife much; if he does, she
decamps. This deference of husband to wife was a great difficulty in the
way of discipline; for I often wanted to punish the ladies of my party,
and yet I could not make their husbands whip them for me, and of course
I was far too gallant to have it done by any other hands. They bored me
to death with their everlasting talking; but I must own that there were
many good points in their character. They were extremely patient, though
not feminine, according to our ideas: they had no strong affections
either for spouse or children; in fact, the spouse was changed almost
weekly, and I seldom knew, without inquiry, who the _pro tempore_ husband
of each lady was at any particular time. One great use of women in my
party was to find out any plan or secret that the natives I was encamped
amongst were desirous of hiding. Experience tells us of two facts: first,
that women delight in communicating everybody else’s secrets to each
other; secondly, that husbands and wives mutually tell one another all
they know. Hence the married women of my party, whenever I staid near
a werft, had very soon made out all the secrets of the inhabitants,
which they retailed directly to their husbands, and they to me. It was
a system of espionage which proved most effectual. A difficulty arising
from women’s gossipings had occurred at Okamabuti, in which Chik behaved
very well. My man Kambanya told his wife, who told other wives, who told
their husbands, that the Ovampo intended to rob and murder me as soon
as I arrived in their country. The story, by passing through so many
hands, had acquired several circumstantial details, quite enough to make
it worth inquiring into; so I, not knowing the origin of the tale, had
Chik up in judgment before me, and taxed him with what I had heard. He
protested his innocence; and then I said that to clear himself he must
investigate the report, which he did in a most masterly manner; and
traced the whole affair down to the unhappy Kambanya, who had fabricated
the story to dissuade me from going, and from taking him to Ovampo-land,
so Kambanya was whipped, and my friendship with Chik cemented all the
stronger.
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