The omnipotent self, a study in self-deception and self-cureBousfield, Paul
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The omnipotent self, a study in self-deception and self-cure
Bousfield, Paul
Mental healing; Psychoanalysis
(6) _To become a private secretary._ On this point, she considered that
her personal appearance and general education would help her, and was
quite compatible with the aim. But she knew no shorthand, book-keeping,
nor typewriting. She, however, realised at once that the immediate aim
in this case should be the shorthand, book-keeping, and typewriting,
and she said, “I will go to-morrow and see where I can learn these
things.” I pointed out to her that she might very possibly change
her mind, when she considered things further, but that even if she
did so, the mastery of shorthand, typewriting and book-keeping might
stand her in good stead, and in any case that she would be working for
an immediate object, in turning some of her phantasy into directive
thought. And on the morrow, she actually did commence her studies on
these subjects.
(7) _The desire to have two children._ This was at once classified, as
I have already said, as a remote aim; though, as a matter of fact, she
got married shortly afterwards, and the remote aim is now on the way to
being fulfilled, as she has one child.
I have shown by this example the ill-considered, phantastic, and
conflicting aims, which some persons may at first produce when they
attempt deliberately to classify them. But it must be remembered that
each of the subsidiary aims which she had discovered her primary aims
to be divided into were, in turn, again capable of being divided into
further subsidiary aims. And the next stage of this form of technique
is to discover these. Day by day, the pencil and paper must be
brought out, and a list of aims and wishes for that day compiled and
considered. They must be in turn examined to show (1) whether they are
compatible with one another, (2) whether they are compatible with other
immediate aims, (3) whether they are compatible with the remote aims.
A strong attempt must then be made to eradicate any aims or wishes
which are antagonistic to one another, or to the primary aims of the
individual, which have already been passed as real. As progress is
made, definite and personal aims will be developed day by day, many of
these, no doubt, apparently trivial, others at least important for the
day in question, all important from the point of view of developing the
habit of thinking in terms of reality.
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