The omnipotent self, a study in self-deception and self-cureBousfield, Paul
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The omnipotent self, a study in self-deception and self-cure
Bousfield, Paul
Mental healing; Psychoanalysis
In such a case, if the individual cannot enjoy his directive
thinking, and he gets no emotional discharge by means of it, it is
possible that his aims in life are unsuited to him, or that he has
not sufficient aims in life, that his time is not as fully occupied
with interesting _acts_ as it should be. In such a case, subsidiary
aims should be formed deliberately, wherein he could take an interest
in directive thinking. _For it may be accepted as a fact that, with
proper cultivation and education, more real pleasure can be found in
suitable directive thinking than in any amount of day-dreams._ It is
also a further fact that the individual’s energy is not then wasted,
but is more or less efficiently utilised. Moreover, instead of losing
strength of character, he is now gaining it. Let it be borne in mind,
always, that continual indulgence of phantasy thought, from its very
ease, breeds the habit of inertia, for the individual’s aims and wishes
attain fulfilment without any need for activity on his part; and here
a vicious circle is produced, because the inertia, which he has thus
encouraged, now in its turn tends to make him resort to phantasy the
more.
It is easy, of course, to say, “I will cut myself off from phantasy
thought, I will pull myself up whenever this occurs, and leave it
alone.” But it is by no means easy to act up to this resolution. If,
however, another kind of directive thought is deliberately substituted
for the phantasy, the task is made very much easier. If the water in
the bath is too hot, and we want it to cool rapidly, we do not merely
turn off the hot tap, we simultaneously turn on the cold.
The task will be rendered more easy still, if the individual selects
his subject of directive thought to replace phantasy beforehand, not
waiting until the time comes. For instance, we will suppose that,
as one subsidiary aim with which to fill in his time, a person has
selected the collection of postage stamps. He will each day have in
front of him some page which he wishes to arrange in chronological
order, to consider from the point of view of water-marks and
perforations; and he may make up his mind that as soon as he finds
himself dealing in phantasy thought he will not only cut out the
phantasy thought but will at once start arranging, in his mind, the
stamps which he was shortly going to arrange in his book. It matters
not in the least what form the substitute thought takes, so long as it
possesses two qualities, (1) it is directive, _i.e._, it is going to
lead to some sort of actual change or action, and (2) that it bears
a pleasurable interest. And for that reason, I have selected a very
trivial form of directive thought as an example. The point is that
the individual should select some subject in which he has a personal
and active interest, as a subject with which he may replace phantasy
thought, whenever the latter comes into his mind.
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