No one can do this but a father. No one can understand his son like a
father and know what it is necessary for him to learn; to no one will
the son listen, or confide in, as his father. But nowadays I notice
that fathers have abdicated. They consider their duty fulfilled if
they pay for the boy's schooling, and everything is left to the
schoolmaster. Many fathers that I know are quite stranger to their
sons. Mothers, on the contrary, strive more and more to obtain
influence over their sons and bring them up in the principles of women.
But a man must be a man or be nothing.
There is another and very considerable difference between schools now
and the schools of sixty years ago and before. In the earlier period
the schoolmasters were rarely clergymen; now they are practically
always so; and not only that, but boys nowadays are far more under
control and influence of their masters than they were.
Now whatever good points may be claimed for Church teaching by those
who believe in it, there will, I think, be no difficulty about the
admission that the frame of mind, the outlook on the world, of
ecclesiastics is not suitable for men who have to lead an active life.
It is, in fact, the very reverse of what a man requires whose first
duty it is to understand the world and to lead the world. For to the
ecclesiastic the world is a bad place, it has to be borne as best it
can, to be condemned not understood, and all effort is directed not to
this world but to some other. Moreover, the habit of thought of
ecclesiastics is fixed. They believe that not only is truth absolute,
but that they possess it or some of it; the very foundation-rock of
their belief is authority, and freedom of thought is disliked by them
as subversive of their tenets. Their principal qualities are those of
submission, patience and obedience, not merely in act but in thought.
Now boys are apt to imitate their masters, and however secular a course
of education may be, if it be given by ecclesiastics the boys are
certain to be a great deal influenced by their master's outlook on
life. That accounts for much of the pessimism that is observable, for
the "unnatural mildness" of the modern young man. If you keep a boy
under ecclesiastical habits of thought till he is twenty-three, how can
he ever escape into the fresh air of free inquiry? How will he ever
love the world instead of despising it? And no good work was ever done
except by men who loved the world; and love comes from understanding,
not from aloofness.
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