The Philippine Islands, 1493-1898; Volume 47, 1728-1759: Explorations by early navigators, descriptions of the islands and their peoples, their history and records of the Catholic missions, as related in contemporaneous books and manuscripts, showing the political, economic, commercial and religious conditions of those islands from their earliest relations with European nations to the close of the nineteenth century
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The Philippine Islands, 1493-1898; Volume 47, 1728-1759: Explorations by early navigators, descriptions of the islands and their peoples, their history and records of the Catholic missions, as related in contemporaneous books and manuscripts, showing the political, economic, commercial and religious conditions of those islands from their earliest relations with European nations to the close of the nineteenth century
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a high and good politeness to be called by the name which signifies
in their own language, "an accomplice in a murder" that title being
"Araoc;" and thus they say Araoc Juan, etc. And as they are little
given to flattery, they never give the name of Araoc to him who does
not really and truly possess it; for it is regarded among them as
making a jest at one to whom the said title is given, if it does not
belong to him, just as among us it is a jest to give the title of a
brave man to one who does not dare to draw his sword from his belt.
Their marriages are not made between relatives, but on the contrary
they try to marry those who are not related to them; and I believe that
the reason therefor is to acquire new kinship by means of marriage,
for we see that he who has the most kindred is the most powerful, is
the one held in highest esteem by all and commits more murders in which
consists their greatest estate, for he has more and greater opportunity
to go scotfree from those murders which he commits. Marriages are not
performed until the relatives of both parties are assembled, and order
the two contracting parties to eat together from one plate. All the
other preceding preparations and ceremonies belong to the contract of
the marriage and the betrothal. Said marriages, moreover, are [not]
made by virtue of the wish of the contracting parties, for they are
married from childhood when most of the contracting parties do not
even have the use of their reason. The reason that has been given to
me for this is so that they may be raised together from childhood, and
contract love one for the other. But we see that very many marriages
result badly, and after marriage the parties separate, although
in this regard the men are very patient, for among these Indians,
as among all those of this land, it is the custom for the man to
give the dowry to the woman. Among the Zambals, it is the custom not
only to give the dowry to the woman, but also another kind of dowry
to all the relatives of the said woman. They call the latter dowry
sambon. Among the Tagálogs it was also formerly the custom and was
called sohol. That second dowry among these Indians is generally larger
than the first, which is the one that is given to the woman. If husband
and wife quarrel, and she wishes to separate from her husband and marry
another man, and if the cause of the quarrel has been given by the man;
they are divorced and he loses the dowry which he gave to his wife,
as well as that which he gave to the relatives of said wife. But if
the cause of the said quarrel proceeded from the wife and she wishes
to be divorced, she must return all the dowry, and in such case her
relatives also return that which was given to them. And since it is
of some consequence to them whether the two married people live at
peace or at war, it is very common for all the woman's kin to take her
side, in order not to return what was given to each one. Consequently,
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