correct her, so she too had to begin over and over again. This play
seemed to please them better than any they had had that day. But at
last the little girl slid down by the side of her small instructor, and
the children slept together in the bright sunshine.” From such tender,
unconscious premonitions we pass to more strongly marked love plays,
for which the services of a special instructor are usually necessary,
as in the somewhat peculiar relation of the boy Rousseau to the little
Goton who played the part of teacher in their private interviews: “Elle
se permettait avec moi les plus grandes privautés, sans jamais m’en
permettre aucune avec elle; elle me traitait exactement en enfant:
ce qui me fait croire, ou qu’elle avait déjà cessé de l’être ou qu’au
contraire elle l’était encore assez elle-même pour ne voir qu’un jeu
dans le péril auquel elle s’exposait.”
Often, too, children show the same sort of preference, all unconscious
of its import, toward particular favourites among their grown-up
friends, enjoying the pleasure of contact for its own sake. “The pretty
girl,” says Mantegazza, “whom Nature has endowed with the power to
awaken longings and sighs at her every step, often does not realize
that in the swarm of her admirers there are boys scarcely yet past
their childhood, who secretly kiss any flower on which she may chance
to look, who are happy if they may steal like a thief into the room
where the beauty has slept and may kiss the carpet that her foot has
pressed; ... and how seldom does she suspect, as her fingers play with
the locks of the little fellow whose head rests on her knee, that his
heart is beating audibly under her caressing touch!”[503] Perez cites
Valle’s account of a ten-year-old boy who was in love with his older
cousin. “Elle vient quelquefois m’agacer le cou, me menacer les côtes
de ses doigts longs. Elle rit, me caresse, m’embrasse; je la serre en
me défendant et je l’ai mordue une fois. Elle m’a crié: Petit méchant!
en me donnant une tape sur la joue un peu fort, etc.”[504]
This feeling may be involved in some of the positions and movements
of tussling boys. Schaeffer has remarked in a short paper that in
the belligerent plays of boys, especially ring fighting,[505] “the
fundamental impulse of sexual life for the utmost extensive and
intensive contact, with a more or less clearly defined idea of conquest
underlying it,” plays a most conspicuous part. I do not believe that
this is the rule, yet I am convinced that Schaeffer’s view is more
often correct than would appear at a first glance, and especially so
when the contestants are on the ground and laughingly struggle together.
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