West Victorian tribes described by Dawson a young chief who can not
find a wife for himself and is inclined to another man’s, may, if
the latter has more than two wives, challenge the husband to combat,
and if victorious make the lady of his choice his lawful spouse. In
New Zealand when a girl has two suitors of equal merit a contest is
arranged in which the damsel is dragged by the arms in different
directions by the wooers, and the stronger carries off the bride.”
Arthur Young tells of a strange custom which was at one time general
in the Arran Islands. “A number of the poorer village folk confer
together respecting some young girl who according to their opinion
ought to be married, and select an eligible peasant. This settled, they
send a message to the fair one that next Sunday she will be ‘beritten
gemacht’—that is, carried on the men’s shoulders. She then prepares
burned wine and cider for the feast, and after mass all pay her a visit
to watch the sling contest. After she is ‘beritten gemacht’ the rivalry
begins, and general attention is skilfully directed toward the chosen
swain. If he is victor he surely marries the maiden; but if another
overcomes him he loses her, for she is the prize of the champion.”[508]
There is surely something playful about such contests, at least in the
preparation and in the awards, if not in the struggle itself. But it
is not always by combat with other suitors that the lover displays his
courage, strength, and dexterity. By boldly taking risks and engaging
in tests of strength and trials of skill which have so strong an
attraction for the young, he claims the attention and admiration which
women bestow on such acts. I do not assert that such exhibitions would
never take place without feminine spectators, but as a rule they would
be pursued with much less enthusiasm if the only onlookers were to be
men. Most herdsmen would be indifferent to the Edelweiss growing on the
almost inaccessible rocks did not a sprig of it in their hats advertise
them to the village beauties as men fearless of danger. We have seen
that the adventurous knight’s readiness for the fray and hearty welcome
to danger in any form were usually prompted by his wish to lay the
trophies of his victories at his lady’s feet. Nowhere is this sort of
courtship more naïvely expressed than in Walter Scott’s Ivanhoe, where
Richard Cœur de Lion sings beneath his lady’s window:
“Joy to the fair! My name unknown,
Each deed and all its praise thine own;
Then, oh, unbar this churlish gate!
The night dew falls, the hour is late.
Inured to Syria’s glowing breath,
I feel the north breeze chill as death;
Let grateful love quell maiden shame,
And grant him bliss who brings thee fame.”
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