and jest, for the very novelty makes it a delight, but would their
interest be so great if there were no masculine spectators in the hut?
Of all the modes of self-exhibition, there is none so important to
a woman as the display of her physical charms, and the difference
between the sexes is plainly shown here as elsewhere. Man in his
wooing makes straight for the goal; woman’s efforts are veiled, but
not hidden, under a show of modesty. The man says, “Look, I am thus
and so”; the woman, “I, too, am thus and so, but don’t look.” The
alluring glance which turns away if it is noticed, but not unless it
is, is a purely feminine love play, and so is the smile which is not
visibly directed toward the man for whom it is intended; with them,
too, attention to the hair is conspicuous. It is amazing to see what
importance even a three-year-old girl will attach to it, and with
what jealous interest the hair of other children is observed. A doll
with real hair is their chief desire. But an enumeration of woman’s
peculiarities in this respect is summed up in their toilet for full
dress; the _décolleté_ gown tells the whole story. Klopstock has the
idea when he speaks in his ode (Die Brant) “of the quickening breast
which so softly swells, not wishing to be seen, but sure of being
seen.” It would be impossible for men to carry off such an exhibition
as women do. They would either not do it at all, or else openly
recognise the object of it. Women, on the contrary, would, if asked,
indignantly protest against such an implication. As a rule, however,
they show little disposition to exhibit their charms for one another’s
benefit.
This principle extends, too, to the display of their mental graces.
When the talk between a man and a woman becomes a love play, she
usually tries to conceal her discovery of their congeniality with
defensive trifling. She leads him on with mocking words, makes a direct
attack, then pretends to discourage him, or intrenches herself in
incredulity.
2. _Love Play in Art_
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