The process of arriving at an object, which plays an important part in
mental life, takes place alongside of the organization of the libido.
After the stage of auto-erotism, the first love-object in the case of
both sexes is the mother; and it seems probable that, to begin with, the
child does not distinguish its mother’s organ of nutrition from its own
body. Later, but still in the first years of infancy, the relation known
as the Œdipus complex, becomes established: boys concentrate their
sexual wishes upon their mother and develop hostile impulses against
their father as being a rival, while girls develop an analogous
attitude. All of the different variations and consequences of the Œdipus
complex are important; and in particular the innately bisexual
constitution of human beings makes itself felt and increases the number
of simultaneously active tendencies. Children do not become clear for
quite a long time upon the differences between the sexes; and during
this period of _sexual enquiry_ they produce typical _sexual theories_
which, since they are limited by the incompleteness of their authors’
own physical development, are a mixture of truth and error and fail to
solve the problems of sexual life (the riddle of the Sphinx, the
question of where babies come from). We see, then, that a child’s first
object-choice is an _incestuous_ one. The whole course of development
that I have described is run through rapidly. For the most remarkable
feature of the sexual life of man is that it comes on in two waves, with
an interval between them. It reaches a first climax in the fourth or
fifth year of a child’s life. But this early growth of sexuality is
nipped in the bud; the sexual impulses, which have shown such
liveliness, are overcome by repression, and a _period of latency_
follows, which lasts until puberty and during which the
“reaction-formations” of morality, shame and disgust are built up. Of
all living creatures, man alone seems to show this double onset of
sexual growth, and it may perhaps be the biological determinant of his
predisposition to neuroses. At puberty the impulses and object-relations
of a child’s early years become re-animated, and amongst them the
emotional ties of his Œdipus complex. The sexual life of puberty is a
struggle between the impulses of early years and the inhibitions of the
latency period. Before this, and while the child is at the highest point
of its infantile sexual development, a genital organization of a sort is
established; but only the _male_ genitals play a part in it, and the
female ones remain undiscovered. (I have described this as the period of
_phallic_ primacy.) At this stage the contrast between the sexes is not
stated in terms of “male” or “female” but of “possessing a penis” or
“castrated.” The _castration complex_ which arises in this connexion is
of the profoundest importance in the formation alike of character and of
neuroses.
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