The Prospective Mother, a Handbook for Women During PregnancySlemons, J. Morris (Josiah Morris)
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The Prospective Mother, a Handbook for Women During Pregnancy
Slemons, J. Morris (Josiah Morris)
Obstetrics; Pregnancy
Someone may feel that the suggestions I have made are not suitable to
her case. Very likely they may not be; to cover all the possibilities
could scarcely be expected, for every case has its problems and
peculiarities. After consultation with her physician each patient
will decide what is particularly advisable for her. Nevertheless, I
would emphasize the importance of securing a competent nurse and
retaining her for at least four weeks. Even with those who must guard
their expense account the truest economy will lie in such a course.
Whenever lack of resources seems likely to prevent this arrangement,
the patient who is looking to her best interests should enter a
hospital where excellent care can be provided at a cost within her
means.
DESIRABLE QUALITIES IN THE NURSE.--It is rarely advisable to select
as nurse a member of the family or an intimate friend. Some of the
motives governing such a course--sentiment, mutual devotion, and the
desire to be humored--are inconsistent with the best kind of nursing.
If the nurse knows the patient intimately, undue anxiety may
interfere with her judgment; thoroughness in routine duties may be
hindered by mistaken consideration for the patient; and in an
emergency sympathy rather than reason may guide her. A successful
nurse must satisfy at least two requirements; she must be capable
professionally and also personally agreeable to her patient. Some
regard advanced years as essential to the first of these
qualifications, but this does not necessarily hold good.
The personal qualities generally welcome in a nurse are neatness,
thoughtfulness, a sympathetic nature, an even disposition, and a
cheerful view of life. Since a short interview is insufficient for
taking the measure of a nurse, patients usually rely upon the opinion
of someone else in selecting her. The judgment of her former patients
is frequently prejudiced in one direction or the other, and such an
estimate must always be accepted with caution. Much the most
trustworthy method is to allow the physician to select her. He will
know nurses who possess the requisite qualities, and certainly he is
most competent to judge their professional attainments. If the choice
of a nurse be left to the doctor, the two are sure to work
harmoniously, and the patient will benefit by their cooperation.
Otherwise she may suffer because of their dissensions, for, if the
doctor is accustomed to one procedure and the nurse to another,
misunderstandings may occur, although both methods yield equally good
results. Whenever he does not select her, she should be asked to
confer with him long before the case is due. Obviously, a physician
cannot be held responsible for a nurse's ability unless he is
acquainted with her training and methods of work.
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