The psycho-analytic study of the familyFlugel, J. C. (John Carl)
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The psycho-analytic study of the family
Flugel, J. C. (John Carl)
Families; Marriage; Parent and child; Psychoanalysis
Of the three principal factors we have enumerated as liable to bring about
a high degree of dissociation between sexual attraction and esteem in men,
it seems probable that the first--that due to the child's contempt for
the (otherwise) loved parent for yielding to the sexual advances of the
hated parent--is almost if not quite as potent with women as with men.
The subsequent reinforcement of the dissociation by the two remaining
factors is however to a considerable extent inoperative with women. The
influence of masturbation is in nearly all respects less marked in women
than in men, partly perhaps because at the important age, at or about
the time of puberty, the practice is less frequent with girls than with
boys, but principally because for a variety of reasons it meets with less
violent psychic opposition, arouses less violent moral conflicts and is
to a much lesser extent liable to become the cause of self-contempt or
self-reproach[133]. Nor again is the association of sexual activity with
prostitution (although the act of prostitution itself may be regarded with
considerable repulsion) so deeply ingrained in women as in men.
In spite, however, of the lesser operation of these factors in the case
of women and in spite of any possible closer connection (through innate
organization) of the elements of the love impulse which are liable to
dissociation, it is nevertheless true that a very considerable number of
women do suffer from some degree of this dissociation[134].
[Sidenote: Manifestations of the dissociation in women]
Such women will often be attracted to two kinds of men--one of which
(frequently physically inferior) may arouse sympathy, respect, devotion
or tenderness, while the other (frequently of a morally, socially or
intellectually inferior type, but often physically superior[135]) will
alone be capable of arousing sexual desire. Quite often the attraction
to an inferior person is combined with the desire for clandestinity to
which we referred above; the whole complex finding its most satisfying
and appropriate expression in a furtive love affair of such a kind as to
be contrary to the moral or social standards of the woman's upbringing
and environment. It is obvious that the difficulties which bar the way
to a completely successful marriage for such women are but little if
at all inferior to those existing in the case of men who suffer from a
corresponding condition of dissociation[136].
[Sidenote: Combination of the prostitute and rescue phantasies]
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