The psycho-analytic study of the familyFlugel, J. C. (John Carl)
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The psycho-analytic study of the family
Flugel, J. C. (John Carl)
Families; Marriage; Parent and child; Psychoanalysis
We have seen that the child's attitude towards his father is usually
an ambivalent one, _i. e._ it is determined partly by tenderness and
affection and partly by hostility or fear. Naturally the relative
predominance of one or other motive varies from one case to another,
both as regards the religious life of individuals and as regards the
beliefs and forms of worship adopted by various races, nations, sects
or denominations. Thus the paternal qualities ascribed to the deity are
sometimes derived chiefly from that attitude of the child towards its
father in virtue of which it sees in him a being full of helpful wisdom
and tender pity, to whom it can turn for encouragement, guidance and
assistance in the difficult affairs of life, and especially in times of
trouble; sometimes on the other hand more emphasis is laid upon those
aspects of the father in which he appears as a severe and perhaps cruel
master or tyrant who enforces strict obedience to his harsh commands and
who inflicts dire penalties upon all who dare to oppose his wishes or
defy his laws. In the higher forms of religion the more directly hostile
relations between child and parent are seldom openly manifested, the
conception of the father as wicked or immoral tending to disappear with
increasing culture, though the notion of obedience to a stern, relentless
authority may be maintained. This in its turn however frequently gives
place to the idea of the kindly, helpful and forgiving father, according
to a process of development which in many respects appears to resemble
the evolution of thought as regards the relations of the individual to
the state or the king, to which we have already drawn attention. It
is a change of this nature for instance that, more perhaps than all
else, marks the step from Judaism to Christianity; the latter giving
promise of a reign of kindliness and forgiveness in place of the harsh
and uncompromising exercise of paternal authority so characteristic of
the former. It is for this reason that Christianity (at any rate in
its primitive form) especially appealed to and encouraged the poor,
the weak and the helpless, those who were most in need of kindness and
assistance; and by so doing has encountered the opposition or contempt
of those who see the paternal authority (and therefore its projection as
the authority of the Universe) in a sterner shape[176], or of those who
(like Nietzsche's Supermen), in their own sense of power and independence,
despise all who, as though they were still children, require the
assistance of a beneficent father to help them through their lives.
[Sidenote: The splitting up of parental attributes among two or more
divinities]
[Sidenote: The Devil]
[Sidenote: The dissociation of good and evil in theology and in the
individual mind]
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