The psycho-analytic study of the familyFlugel, J. C. (John Carl)
Science
The psycho-analytic study of the family
Flugel, J. C. (John Carl)
Families; Marriage; Parent and child; Psychoanalysis
Another, but a later and usually less deep seated, cause of hostile
feelings in children towards their parents, is to be found in the natural
and to some extent inevitable competition of the successive generations
for the available sources of wealth and power. This motive is apt to
be experienced more strongly among the relatively wealthy classes than
among the relatively poor, with whom under existing social conditions the
children may at a comparatively early age attain to an economic position
little if at all inferior to that of their parents. In many well-to-do
families, however, the prospect of succeeding at the death of the parent
to a considerable sum of money, a title, or a recognised business, social,
or professional position, will frequently supply a motive for secretly
desiring the death of that parent--a motive which of course usually
suffers a very considerable degree of repression, but which nevertheless
may constitute a factor of importance in the determination of the total
psychic attitude of the child towards the parent. This is especially
liable to be the case where for any reason--_e. g._ an extravagant mode
of life on the part of the child or a want of generosity on the part of
the parent--the resources at the disposal of the former are markedly
insufficient for the satisfaction of his needs (real or supposed), or
again where the lack of adequate funds is felt as a hindrance to some
important step in life, such as entering upon a marriage or upon some
business enterprise. Here the contrast between the economic impotence of
the child as compared with the greater resources of his parents--coming,
as it is apt to do, just at the period of his most urgent desires and most
ardent aspirations--is only too likely to resuscitate the dead relics
of infantile envy and hostility. Such a revival, by the circumstances
of later life, of hate engendered during early years, can only be with
certainty avoided where the remains of such hatreds are no longer
persistent as distinct and powerful trends in the unconscious, but have
worked themselves off naturally and have lost their power by absorption in
the main tendencies and interests of a healthy personality.
[Sidenote: Hatred of the parent of the child's own sex]
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
Reviews
Reviews
No reviews yet
Be the first to share your thoughts on this work.
Elsewhere in the archive
Join the Discussion
Join the discussion
Sign in to leave a comment or review.
Sign InorCreate an account